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However, I did date a man who reminded me of one of those damn cartoon gophers that were so polite. "After you, no after you, no you, I insist, you first, please, I insist, thank you, no thank you, you're welcome, and thank you, no you're so kind, you're the best, After you, no you..." Ugh.
Do you find manners...saying please and thank you, opening doors, pulling out chairs etc. attractive, or a sign of weakness?
I find it very attractive, especially when I am hauling a lot of stuff through a door way, thus why I do it for others. I do not see how it could be perceived as a sign of weakness though.
However, I did date a man who reminded me of one of those damn cartoon gophers that were so polite. "After you, no after you, no you, I insist, you first, please, I insist, thank you, no thank you, you're welcome, and thank you, no you're so kind, you're the best, After you, no you..." Ugh.
I didn't think you could be too polite.....I have been proven wrong
I don't see how politeness can be considered a weakness. It's a very attractive trait to me.
Woe is the world we live in when politeness is considered weakness. Let's all be jackasses to each other, that'll make things a lot more smooth. A woman with manners is incredibly attractive to me because her parents did a good job of raising her with good moral character. I appreciate when people do nice things for me so I in turn, return the favor. Please and Thank You are part of my vocab. The world would be a better place if everyone acted like they had some sense.
Politeness is a major turn on for me. It can make someone quite ordinary appear gorgeous and like a 10 in my book. Definitely not a weakness. Combined with how you carry yourself as well. Yes, some people are meek but when you're a strong man who obviously has self-confidence but is polite and courteous - nothing is sexier!
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