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Old 04-19-2010, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville, FL
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Thanks for the honesty on the subject. I'm a newly single mom of 2. If I was a young guy with no kids I don't think I'd date a divorced mother either when there are other options. I do personally know some men (some with kids and some without) that ended up marrying single mothers and they are awesome step dads. I really don't care if I meet anyone or not because I'm happy with my life in general. But at least I know that there are decent men out there, even if few and far between.
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Old 04-19-2010, 12:28 PM
 
Location: La Verne CA
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I'm a single mom. Haven't had any men breaking down the door to take me out, that's for sure, except for my gay male friends.
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Old 04-19-2010, 12:33 PM
 
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Hey,

I am just curious and would like some opinions.

Would you date/marry a divorced woman with two young kids (less than 4 years) if she was the one that ended the marriage? No infidelity or anything like that,but marriage wasn't working out,frequent arguments,unhappy etc.

Dad would very likely still be in the picture and involved in kids lives.

Secondly,if mom and kids are a different race,specifically black?


ps. Please I don't need anyone to make a big deal about the race issue I am just looking for honest opinions.

Sometimes it is easier to ask strangers important questions.

Thanks
I doubt if any of the responses here will be helpful to you. Hardly represent reality.
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Old 04-19-2010, 02:01 PM
 
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Not represntative of reality??

That guys with no kids will bang her if she is hot, but aren't going to marry her?

Miss, that is about as close to reality as she is going to get. And that dose of reality was free.

Here this is free too. Write it down. "If he wanted kids, he would have had his own....."

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Old 04-19-2010, 02:08 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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Not represntative of reality??

That guys with no kids will bang her if she is hot, but aren't going to marry her?

Miss, that is about as close to reality as she is going to get. And that dose of reality was free.
My guess is that she's probably a nice open minded person, but unfortunately, since she's a single mother with two very young black children, she can probably stand to lose quite a bit of poundage really before anyone will find her remotely attractive.
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Old 04-19-2010, 02:09 PM
 
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If she was hot, yeah!
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Old 04-19-2010, 05:45 PM
 
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No, I would never date a mom. They have already been defiled with another man's seed.
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Old 04-19-2010, 05:48 PM
 
Location: Georgia
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I dated a Married Woman when I was single. It didn't turn out well,Her kids(teenagers)hated My guts and it went downhill from there.
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Old 04-19-2010, 05:51 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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My guess is that she's probably a nice open minded person, but unfortunately, since she's a single mother with two very young black children, she can probably stand to lose quite a bit of poundage really before anyone will find her remotely attractive.

I can't believe I just read that...

So..since her kids are young and black = she's fat? Or is it because SHE'S black? Oh I see. I'm also fairly certain she is not single so some poor soul must find her attractive.
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Old 04-19-2010, 06:26 PM
 
Location: SoCal - Sherman Oaks & Woodland Hills
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I can't believe I just read that...

So..since her kids are young and black = she's fat? Or is it because SHE'S black? Oh I see. I'm also fairly certain she is not single so some poor soul must find her attractive.
Oh come on, lets not bury our head in the sand and pretend not to see this. The OP mentioned that the kids are of difference race (black) and they are very young. How many very white women do you know with two very young kids by a black dude who is also having problems finding a date, is in tip top shape physically? I mean come on. Sure the OP said nothing about what she looks like, but in all actuality, she probably is still carrying around a bit of that babyfat unless she's an avid fitness buff, which I seriously doubt.
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