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Old 05-07-2010, 07:30 PM
 
Location: NC
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First, it's your body so you should do what you want.

As to your question, in my case (as a guy) it's not a total deal breaker, but I prefer natural.
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Old 05-07-2010, 07:53 PM
 
Location: Europe, in the Land of the mean
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There's a joke in here...... I'm working on one. LOL
And beneath one, or two..
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Old 05-07-2010, 08:29 PM
 
Location: South FL
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Man, if I was totally flat-chested, I would get a boob job too.

A woman with cleavage looks more feminine than the one without and I'm not apologizing for my shallow point of view.
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Old 05-07-2010, 10:36 PM
 
Location: Hawaii
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I don't think you need to tell anyone. There's no reason to. Yes I belive that they might be harder than real boobs, in general, but everything else is just bull stereotypes.

I definetly don't think you should make any decision about this based on how it will affect your dating life.
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Old 05-07-2010, 10:40 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Man, if I was totally flat-chested, I would get a boob job too.

A woman with cleavage looks more feminine than the one without and I'm not apologizing for my shallow point of view.

Hell to the ya....
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Old 05-08-2010, 06:40 AM
 
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I'm a 36a. When I was a teen, I prayed for larger breasts. However, now that I'm more mature, I've come to realize the value of self-love. You should simply learn to love who you are and your unique shape.

A few years ago when I wasn't as confident, I spent some time looking at before and after shots of breast surgeries. Now I know that I would never want to permanently alter my body (but everyone is different and I can't judge you for wanting to do so). It's really a personal decision.

FYI: You can find petite tops/clothes to fit your size (it will take some time, but you can do it). And truth be told, there are a sizable number of guys, who actually prefer petite women with smaller frames over big chested women.
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Old 05-08-2010, 06:46 AM
 
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Man, if I was totally flat-chested, I would get a boob job too.

A woman with cleavage looks more feminine than the one without and I'm not apologizing for my shallow point of view.
Having large breasts does not in any way define femininity. Sure, it's a great element to have, but it's not the only element. A small breasted woman can still be very feminine in appearance (based on her face, hips, legs, butt, etc), not to mention friendly/warm and sweet personality.
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Old 05-08-2010, 06:53 AM
 
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I am VERY flat chested, a 34 AA (for those who don't know that is smaller than an A-cup). Basically, I have no breast tissue whatsoever. This has always bothered me, and made me feel unfeminine. My ex-husband was totally against me getting implants, and I respected his wishes. Now that I am single though, I have decided to take the plunge and am scheduled for surgery next month. Since I am totally flat now, I want them to look realistic, and am therefore only going up to B-cup. My surgeon agrees that this would be a good size option for me.

I am doing this for me, and it is something I have always wanted, however, one thing that concerns me is that I have heard many male friends say very negative things about women with fake breasts. They have said they are ugly, feel weird, mean that the woman is crazy, insecure, sexually promiscuous, etc.

I am currently 31 and after taking a year to recover after the divorce, feel like I am ready to try to meet someone. Will breast implants be a total deal breaker to a guy? Should I tell a guy I am dating at a certain point that they aren't real?
savethe money you will still hav low self esteem
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Old 05-08-2010, 06:57 AM
 
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Man, if I was totally flat-chested, I would get a boob job too.

A woman with cleavage looks more feminine than the one without and I'm not apologizing for my shallow point of view.
. This is total bs and take it from someone who superficial people like you think im blessed. it is NOT a deal breaker only a jerk magnet Brainless society
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Old 05-08-2010, 08:11 AM
 
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savethe money you will still hav low self esteem
Only if she listens to "downers" like you.
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