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Man, attracting women is MUCH more about your attitude and behaviour than your looks.
You can actually get coaching on it and I even reccommend some of them. I personally like RSD (Real Social Dynamics) but there are others who are good. You have to shop around though because some dating coaches will teach you to be a jerk.
Oh you look fine to me btw. Really if you looked like a freak I would tell you.
I find it interesting, the person looks handsome/beautiful until they smile, and the attractiveness can go out the window.
And then? There are people who aren't so attractive, they smile, and you suddenly forget the earlier image of them, and you suddenly find them attractive.
scenario #1
Taking a photo to see how well delousing formula is working:2-4
scenario #2
Taking a photo and asking if you are good looking: 3-5
scenario #3
Taking a photo to see if the camera works after smirking at service person who said it works and responding, OK, it works: 4-6
scenario #4
Taking a photo with a girls cell phone after getting her number: 5-7
scenario #5
Taking a picture with the cell phone of a guy you just knocked off his stool for making a racial Asian slur and muttering "something to remember me by": 6-8
scenario #6
Same scenario above except that is was against Mexicans in the presence of your hot Mexican female company: 7-9
I have been wondering about that question recently. You see, I am 21 years old already and I still have never had a girlfriend. I don't know if that's an issue of looks or something else. Please help me solve this question by giving me your most honest answer. I greatly appreciate your help. Many thanks in advance.
PS: This is not a troll thread. I am seriously asking you guys for your honest opinion.
I am a straight guy and all but I can tell you that you are not bad looking. You definitely look better than me. I will trade places with you if you want.
One thing needs to be set straight, dude. Different looks appeal to different people. Someone that you think is attractive, I might run from screaming into the night.
So give your opinion, but don't be so arrogant as to assume that your opinion is any more valid then anyone else's.
He's a cutie to many of us. 'Nuff said.
Chessie, no offense, but most women Ive seen reply are old enough to be his mother. Not exactly encouraging to a 20 something.
OP, here's some brutal advice from someone that is only 2 years older.
Grow some hair. Most women our age dont like to see the shine on top, and for God's sake smile once in a while. The suit is a turnoff too. You look like you're about to collect my taxes vs. chat me up.
Other than that, personality is key...if you find someone you like, try to catch them in a casual setting (gym, grocery store, etc), then strike up a conversation.
I dont think he's gonna get an earring just to make you happy.
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Different looks appeal to different people. Someone that you think is attractive, I might run from screaming into the night. 
