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Old 02-28-2019, 02:46 PM
Status: "I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out." (set 22 days ago)
 
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I like coming on this forum because I was once a very fundamentalist devoted Christian. Now I'm not. I find some of the discussions very interesting. I don't think there is anything wrong in challenging what someone believes. I don't mind when people come on the Agnostic/Atheist forum and challenge why I no longer believe. It makes for good conversation sometimes.
It really does, and that's why I'm here too.

What I don't like is when posters aggressively state that I have to convince them of my beliefs.

Posters here should be able to believe what they believe, and post it, and shouldn't be burdened with convincing anyone else.

Like, if you were to post that you really really love your new car, because ________. Someone shouldn't be able to come back and say well that can't be true because you haven't convinced me, and "blind spot" is subjective. And then later go on to say you've posted that trucks are worthless.

I don't really give a damn if they like my car.

You can post about your new car, and those who are interested in reading about it and looking further into it should, those who don't agree it's a pretty design shouldn't be able to insist you convince them it is.

Or anyway, that's how I see it.

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Old 02-28-2019, 03:23 PM
 
Location: Sun City West, Arizona
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It really does, and that's why I'm here too.

What I don't like is when posters aggressively state that I have to convince them of my beliefs.

Posters here should be able to believe what they believe, and post it, and shouldn't be burdened with convincing anyone else.

Like, if you were to post that you really really love your new car, because ________. Someone shouldn't be able to come back and say well that can't be true because you haven't convinced me, and "blind spot" is subjective. And then later go on to say you've posted that trucks are worthless.

I don't really give a damn if they like my car.

You can post about your new car, and those who are interested in reading about it and looking further into it should, those who don't agree it's a pretty design shouldn't be able to insist you convince them it is.

Or anyway, that's how I see it.
You're not required to convince anyone of anything. But that doesn't mean that people aren't going to question your posts. You decide how -- or whether -- to respond.
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Old 02-28-2019, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Florida
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You can post about your new car, and those who are interested in reading about it and looking further into it should, those who don't agree it's a pretty design shouldn't be able to insist you convince them it is.

Or anyway, that's how I see it.
You're right. If you like your car then the fact that it may have have the lowest safety rating or highest recall average shouldn't dissuade you in the least if it's 'pretty' and you like it.
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Old 02-28-2019, 03:36 PM
Status: "I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out." (set 22 days ago)
 
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You're right. If you like your car then the fact that it may have have the lowest safety rating or highest recall average shouldn't dissuade you in the least if it's 'pretty' and you like it.

What if I say it's a really, really comfortable ride. The driver's seat is incredibly comfortable.

And others say I drove it and I was uncomfortable, you haven't convinced me, so stop posting.

Now what?
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Old 02-28-2019, 03:37 PM
 
Location: Sun City West, Arizona
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Oh for heaven's sake...so to speak.
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Old 02-28-2019, 03:43 PM
 
Location: SF/Mill Valley
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Confusing title thread - shouldn’t it be ‘People who DON’T believe in a higher power’?
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Old 02-28-2019, 03:57 PM
 
Location: Florida
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What if I say it's a really, really comfortable ride. The driver's seat is incredibly comfortable.

And others say I drove it and I was uncomfortable, you haven't convinced me, so stop posting.

Now what?
LOL...To you, that may be a very good suggestion
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Old 02-28-2019, 04:59 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Your question has been answered, by a moderator no less.


Just what are you still confused about.
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Old 02-28-2019, 05:04 PM
Status: "I don't understand. But I don't care, so it works out." (set 22 days ago)
 
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Your question has been answered, by a moderator no less.


Just what are you still confused about.
If you're talking to me, I've never been "confused" about anything here.

This is a discussion - if you don't care to discuss it, I guess it is kind of confusing to me that you're posting.
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Old 02-28-2019, 05:10 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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What if I say it's a really, really comfortable ride. The driver's seat is incredibly comfortable.

And others say I drove it and I was uncomfortable, you haven't convinced me, so stop posting.

Now what?
Perhaps it would be helpful if you could point out where you have been told to stop posting?
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