My wife and I just moved to Bakersfield from Nebraska. I travel a regional area and can live anywhere in the area. My wife just started working in Delano. We drove around there for a while the other day looking at housing. The northeast corner of the city has some nice subdivisions. The shopping is OK there. But, there is not much else. We saw nice houses on one side of the street and trashed houses on the other.
We live in SW Bakersfield. She takes 45 minutes to get to Delano. The drive is really not too bad.
If you want any kind of nightlife at all, move to Bakersfield. As said earlier, the northwest corner of Bakersfield is nice. The commute is not bad except when the fog rolls in.
Not sure what kind of budget you have for housing, but the Bakersfield area is about the lowest in the state.
Good luck with your move. Here is a web site -
New To Bakersfield - New To Bakersfield.
Of course about the same distance the other direction is Tulare.