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Ok, why is it that women always want to 'change' your looks?
It's like your character doesn't matter...it's always looks...or hair cut...
Example...
Even for a roomate add...some lady suggested I should cut my hair...to give myself a more 'polished' look....
Who ever said I wanted a polished look?
And no...the photo I sent looks nothing like the ones I have up here...the ones i have up here are for my own amusement....
Even in the past...women I have met or tried to meet or date...
They always want you to have a 'polished' square look....
That is so not me...but once they get to know my character they don't care anymore...
But what I'm saying is...thats how 'players' get over on women and how women get 'suckered' into these relationships...cause a player will go out and get the 'polished' look, perfect short haircut...trimmed hairline...just cause they know that's what the lady wants...and then worm their way into her life...and well you know the rest...
Me, I'm just the opposite...I'm 'polished' on the inside...but on the outside I like art and flair...
Oh well, some women will never get it...and instead want you to be their 'ken doll' that they can dress up and groom....
I wonder if "getting a polished look" is a euphemisim for quit looking like a slob?
I like my husbands charater just fine, but I also shave the back of his neck when we shower. I hate hairy necks!
This particular lady...they owned a condo...so I suspect near 40...I don't know...
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Originally Posted by picklejuice
The same reasons males want big or nice t-ts on females, etc. It's a preference thing, dude.
Except, in the case of an unkempt male, it's such an easy fix to make a woman happy!
And you have the benefit of not having to spend $ on ti--ies, etc.
And yet, you persist in your stubborn "I'm an individual" mode.
And for that, you will probably remain lonely and without companionship until you smarten up and change.
Good luck, bro!
Lonely...you injected that word or idea...not me...who said anything about lonely?
That's for a another topic...I was writing about some womens desire to treat their men like Ken dolls...rob them of their uniqueness and turn them into a banquet prince....
ken was gay.
that is why barbie liked to hang out with him, a very good dancer and smart dresser.
Now that's funny....
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Originally Posted by temptation001
Metrosexuals are a little too much for my taste. I like a man that wears jeans.
Jeans are cool...if the guy can have rebel hair...
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Originally Posted by Joliefille
I wonder if "getting a polished look" is a euphemisim for quit looking like a slob?
I like my husbands charater just fine, but I also shave the back of his neck when we shower. I hate hairy necks!
Slob no...exotic yes...in the mainstream world...hair is about the only element in which a guy has to exhibit 'flair'....and some women even insist that go...
Again...I'm not a ken doll....I'm more like Anikin in Revenge of the Sith...he was clean, corporate, but still Savage...in a refined way...
And again, no one seems to care about character...I can retain a 'polished' look...and have a awful character...I see power hungry males like that all the time...
Many on here have dated such types...
Modest changes are no big deal. And if a few changes turns her on, we both benefit!
Besides, I also influence her style and wardrobe towards looks that work for me as well as her. It's superficial stuff and doesn't change who I am or who she is, fundamentally.
Modest changes are no big deal. And if a few changes turns her on, we both benefit!
Besides, I also influence her style and wardrobe towards looks that work for me as well as her. It's superficial stuff and doesn't change who I am or who she is, fundamentally.
I've learned personally, never date a women who is first and foremost concerned with your hair....and who see's you hair or style of dress above your personality and or accomplishments...
Such a relationship is a disaster waiting to happen...
please leave the 'playground' mentality elsewhere...
this is not the topic in which to work out your own sexual insecurities towards self...
The topic is Ken...and how some women try to turn men they date into one...
It's about athetics vs heart...
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