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If one has very large breasts and one wears very tight, form-fitting sweaters, people who enjoy looking at large breasts are going to assume that the choice of garments was intended to encourage their attention.
I know. I have large breasts.
If I feel like wearing tight sweaters or showing cleavage? I do.
If someone notices or comments, or hits on me? I'm not surprised.
Nor should you be. You bought enormous breasts. Maybe you see this as something just for you. That's your right. It's your body.
But, people aren't blind. If you want something ignored, you don't paint a bullseye on it.
That's right up there with people who buy very expensive cars, homes, clothes, etc then get mad when they think someone may be interested in them for their money. Well, duh.
Well said and the point I was trying to make as well.
In general, I agree, that's why at job #2, I wear sweaters like the the one in the OP, which is not suggestive at all.
Unfortunately, stuffing large boobs into a clingy, form-fitting sweater IS suggestive. I know this is all new to you since you've just had your surgery a short time ago, but I've dealt with this my entire post-pubescent life.
Serious question, when you researched your surgery, did you also research the perceptions your new breasts would create?
This is a tight sweater. The pic posted in the OP was not. The photo was there for a reason.
I've always had large breasts so I know how to dress them. Half of my photos are pre-op and half are post-op.
You just illustrated my point. The woman in the OP could be wearing that sweater one size smaller and it wouldn't suggest much. She's not got an enormous rack.
This woman needs a much larger version. About 2-3 sizes, by my estimation, if she plans not to have many eyes glued to her chest.
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Which goes back to my point saying why say someone's outfit is suggestive when you really mean someone's body is suggestive?
But if the body is suggestive, whatever you cover it with, your body will be still perking up suggestively from under there => you'll get comments about your clothes, when they really mean your body.
(I'm getting a whiff of a vanity thread.
Edited: your pics are always your face and your boobies. It's not about sweaters, really, it's about another opportunity to talk about pretty me).
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