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Yes, unfortunately society judges us based on who we're involved with.
I (and anyone else) should be able to date a big woman, and not be judged negatively because of this. As a tall, thin guy who exclusively dates BBW's, I can tell you that people don't always judge in subtle ways, either. Years ago, my plus-sized gf at the time noticed that a woman was blatantly staring both of us up & down when we were out in public - obviously because of the contrast in our physical appearance(s). I thankfully didn't see this happen...
People just need to mind their own business, and not be concerned with who others are dating - if you don't like it, %$%^ off.....
Nope - I'm a Caucasian guy. Nice stereotype, though.
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Originally Posted by MEDALLOKUYA
Most men (even larger men) are not going to be physically attracted to large or fat women. Very rare to see an average - good looking socially adept man with a large woman. I see black men with this dynamic more so than white males.
This is simply not true. This attitude is part of the whole problem that slender guys like me (who like dating big women) run into.
In recent years I have started seeing more slender guys (of all races) with larger women - it's definitely more common than it was even 10 years ago.
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Nope - I'm a Caucasian guy. Nice stereotype, though.
This is simply not true. This attitude is part of the whole problem that slender guys like me (who like dating big women) run into.
In recent years I have started seeing more slender guys (of all races) with larger women - it's definitely more common than it was even 10 years ago.
Its not true? Go ask 20 average to above looking men if they are attracted to fat women. I guarantee you 18 or more will say no.
Being with someone doesnt actually automatically mean you are attracted to them. Lord knows I have slept with countless women I was not attracted to. They were simply the best option at the time.
Its not true? Go ask 20 average to above looking men if they are attracted to fat women. I guarantee you 18 or more will say no.
Being with someone doesnt actually automatically mean you are attracted to them. Lord knows I have slept with countless women I was not attracted to. They were simply the best option at the time.
I think you're being very generous. I would expect 98 out of 100 to say no. Of course I'm talking about whites only.
And you're right, there's countless reasons a man might be with a particular woman, none of which have anything to do with whether he's physically attracted to her.
It's cultural. Hang out with Africans and you'll see many variations of the "Jack Sprat couple" as I name the phenomenon. The women are very large and they carry themselves like haughty queens, everything about them says that any man would be lucky to have one on his arm.
Good lifestyle is essential for success. Most obese people I've seen (men and women) have a bad lifestyle. That's something I don't want future generations to follow.
I can't control another persons choices. But my advice is, if you want a healthy environment for your kids, choose the right mate carefully. Survival of the fittest ladies and germs.
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It's cultural. Hang out with Africans and you'll see many variations of the "Jack Sprat couple" as I name the phenomenon. The women are very large and they carry themselves like haughty queens, everything about them says that any man would be lucky to have one on his arm.
Yes, we like them thick so we can have something to hold on to We treat them like queens and they carry themselves very well.
I see slender and even muscular above average looking men with big women frequently. Often times it's just women that are maybe 20 pounds overweight. Every now and then the women is what you might consider obese.. I don't see above average men with obese women that often but I do see slightly below average looking men with obese women frequently when I see fat women/slender men combinations. I think these days more men are acting on their attraction to big women. I mean consider the rapper Drake for instance he could get the baddest females out there but he loves BBW.
I think it's starting to transcend race since I see white dudes with big women more then I used to. I do know that black men and latin men have always liked women that society might consider fat. It used to be for black men that they were attracted to women that were built like coke bottles-thick toned legs, slim waist, and a big butt. The way a lot of video thots look like. My body shape. But it seems within the last 5 years that too has changed. Look up the word thick and you see images of fat women. When I go out I see black men with women that are a cheeseburger away from being fat-with bigger tummies, super thick legs and a huge butt. Women that are clearly very plus size. These men call these women thick.
I always considered myself thick and now men tell me I'm not that I just have a thick a$$ but I'm small. Again a decade ago a women built like me would have been thick now we're considered small. I def. think that as society gets bigger, men's attraction adjusts. i don't think men face the same pressure they used to when it comes to dating big women. It's too common for that to be the case. Maybe for white guys it's still looked down on but for black men it seems opposite-they date slim women but a lot seem to go crazy for a thick broad with a big a$$.
This coupling is probably more common because people are fatter today. It's not like many people have much of a choice. Personally I don't care about other couples but I can't stand this fat acceptance or dad bod movement. We should strive to be healthy instead of giving up and settling for mediocrity.
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We treat them like queens and they carry themselves very well.
