['bout time I contributed something so here goes]
This is where I live. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .see name above ^
Only 2500 population.
It is about as central as you can get. There are dozens of businesses, a theater, and many medical services here including hospital, academy since 1823, library and courthouse. We're about 30 minutes from Bangor or Newport (I95).
It is a great place for some and a depressing place for a few. But most people live here like they would live anywhere. Just average, normal, hardworking, residents of a rural community with lots to offer those who look. And a boring, grey, cold, muggy, buggy, middle of nowhere to others.
One thing that attracts people to Maine is the coast. We might as well be in central NH or VT for all that matters. Most people that I know work and play in the area they live over 90-95% of the time so getting to the ocean for people here is special. But that is the same in Sacramento too.
I have relatives all over central Maine that have yearly camping trips up further north so they can get away from their overly populated towns. It's all relative I guess.
For me, the biggest challenge here is the weather. I see that outdoor functions require rain dates. Maine weather cannot be trusted. My two winters here couldn't have been more different. One very snowy. The other only 30% normal snowfall. Many had
's on their faces all winter while others who like to play in the snow wore
's on their faces (me).
Like what others have said, it's all in what you make of it. And if one just can't make Maine work for them or their families and the lifestyle is too hard to cut through, then other places may be the better option.
Personally, for me, I'm still in the middle somewhere. Maine hasn't totally wore on me yet. It hasn't wore me out yet either.
I miss some things about the west. I am taking stock of where I am though and try to take advantage of the opportunities here. The friends I've made and met on CD have helped me more than you know. And reading and learning stuff about Maine on this forum has been a lifeline.
I still consider myself an abbreviated Mainer. Not quite ready to call myself a developed Mainer yet.