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Old 10-08-2015, 01:34 PM
 
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Because your actions do not match your words.
Yep. Just the fact that he asked you straight out if you were attracted to men means that he had a pretty good idea already.

Straight men don't ask that question to other straight men.

 
Old 10-08-2015, 02:01 PM
 
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Is this the Birthday Lunch guy?
 
Old 10-08-2015, 02:04 PM
 
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Is this the Birthday Lunch guy?
Seems like the same guy to me. I was wondering this as well.

I knew this sounded familiar

Good friend and co-worker wants to leave :(

OP you said you had a secret crush on him ^^^ I'm sure he knows you wanted to be more than friends.

Seriously, you sound obsessed with this guy. Some therapy would probably help.

Even been so close with a co-worker where you share everything with each other?
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Old 10-08-2015, 02:08 PM
 
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True but he doesn't know about it because he knows I'm straight and told him I'm dating girls, etc.
Once he asked me if I would date guys, I said no.
Wait, didn't you start this thread moaning about how people lie?

Now you've just admitted you lied yourself?

Suck it up, its called Payback.
 
Old 10-08-2015, 02:21 PM
 
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I reckon the guy left and got another job because he couldn't stand it.

OP you sound like you're stalking him, now.
 
Old 10-08-2015, 02:24 PM
 
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What makes it fine being nice that day and then ignore afterwards? So work friends cannot be real friends wow... How do people make real friends then?!
Of course work friends can be friends outside of work...if both want that friendship. You can't force people to be friends with you. Because you are acting more than friends. Can't you find gay guys to hang with?
 
Old 10-08-2015, 02:25 PM
 
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Is this the Birthday Lunch guy?
I believe so; he changed his alias.
 
Old 10-08-2015, 02:29 PM
 
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OK so is he admitting his gayness now

lying about it

to us

to his ex colleague

then wondering why people avoid him?
 
Old 10-08-2015, 02:35 PM
 
Location: Chicago. Kind of.
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I believe so; he changed his alias.
I THOUGHT this sounded familiar. Thanks!
 
Old 10-08-2015, 03:05 PM
 
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Too bad it's the same guy. I was going to suggest those two get together and enjoy a homoerotic but not-gay trip to Knotts Berry Farm together.
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