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Old 01-04-2016, 02:54 PM
 
Location: Leaving fabulous Las Vegas, Nevada
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I just don't want to deal with all the lovey dovey BS
Is it BS because it isn't you? If you do ever find some one, no one will be there for you. Is that what you want?
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Old 01-04-2016, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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I just don't want to deal with all the lovey dovey BS
Can't wait to read what you'll be posting around Valentine's Day.
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Old 01-04-2016, 03:04 PM
 
Location: here
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I just don't want to deal with all the lovey dovey BS
Then don't, but don't complain when (if) you find someone and no one cares.
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Old 01-04-2016, 03:09 PM
 
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I am incredibly selfish lol I admit it and I'm ok with it. At this point in my life if something is not going to put me around single, attractive men who would get married to me within a year and get me pregnant, I have no real reason to do it.
Then do yourself and your friend a service and stay home.
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Old 01-04-2016, 03:40 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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You don't even know me. I'm not a troll and any guy would be lucky to date me. Anyways true but idk I mean I can try going for a little bit I guess.
To be fair on this, she didn't say GOOD luck. OP, you are so far gone on yourself, I don't even know if it is possible to bring you back, if this is real.
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Old 01-04-2016, 03:44 PM
 
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So I recently became friends with this girl in my grad program, she's funny and cool and likes alcohol like me lol anyways I was over at her house last week and she told me how she got engaged on Christmas eve (ugh holiday engagements). Anyways she is having a housewarming party soon and of course she wants me to come. It will always be their way to tell everyone about their engagement. Well ok I am thinking about it and looking at the people who they invited.. all seemingly couples. I don't need that in my life especially being that I just lost my relationship like 2 weeks ago and want to die. I was telling my bestfriend and she said I should go and make friends and maybe a couple will like befriend me and want to introduce me to someone which sounds desperate and horrible (not that trolling every single dating site is better). Anyways I RSVPed after I had an awesome date and thought it would be promising but I think I changed my mind, especially since he doesn't seem interested. Idk if I should tell them or just not come or make something up the day of? It wouldn't be so bad if there were going to be a lot of hot single people there or if they weren't one of those overly loving couples... it can be so annoying I just don't want to deal with it. How do I handle this situation?
It doesn't matter whether the invitation was on Facebook or done with calligraphy by a quill pen on vellum. People who make RSVPs and then blow them off are really inconsiderate, self-centered people. Those who throw a social occasion buy food, drinks, and whatever else based on the number who say they're coming.
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Old 01-04-2016, 04:05 PM
 
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Is it BS because it isn't you? If you do ever find some one, no one will be there for you. Is that what you want?
I'VE thought about that and I don't want that. I also just got a text from the guy I went out with last so yay maybe I'll go
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Old 01-04-2016, 04:07 PM
 
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It doesn't matter whether the invitation was on Facebook or done with calligraphy by a quill pen on vellum. People who make RSVPs and then blow them off are really inconsiderate, self-centered people. Those who throw a social occasion buy food, drinks, and whatever else based on the number who say they're coming.
She would have extra food and that's good
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Old 01-04-2016, 04:08 PM
 
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Then don't, but don't complain when (if) you find someone and no one cares.
When I find someone I'm going to be super low key about it.
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Old 01-04-2016, 04:09 PM
 
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She would have extra food and that's good
Okay. With that, I know you're not real.
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