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Old 11-29-2014, 06:58 PM
 
Location: Coastal Georgia
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I am in my 60s although I don't think it necessarily matters, since the people who called me Sweetheart, Darlin, and Sweetie, called others the same thing.
My dental hygienist kept calling me Sweetheart. The drunken guy at the liquor store calls me Darlin', and the waitress at lunch today called everyone she waited on Sweetie.
It drives me nuts. Maybe its a southern thing?
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Old 11-29-2014, 07:01 PM
 
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It can be very southern, sounds like it is in your case. Whether or not it would bother me where I live I guess depends on the gender of the person. Another woman, doesn't bother me but from a guy would seem inappropriate.
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Old 11-29-2014, 07:07 PM
 
Location: South Carolina
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I was raised in the south and this is a very common thing and my grandmother who was also raised in the south always said sweetheart ...it is just a southern thing and I would not let it bother me .
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Old 11-29-2014, 07:15 PM
 
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It did when I first moved to the area I currently reside... But not so much anymore. I don't even react to it
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Old 11-29-2014, 07:16 PM
 
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I think it's quaint. I quite enjoy it.
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Old 11-29-2014, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Wonderland
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I quite like it myself. It's never bothered me a bit.

If it bothers you well, then all I can say is "Bless your little pea pickin' heart, you little sugar lump dumplin'..."
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Old 11-29-2014, 09:46 PM
 
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I like it. I think it is endearing.
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Old 11-29-2014, 09:48 PM
 
Location: Southwestern, USA, now.
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Since I never got that as a child...no words of endearment...
I will buy anything from you if you call me honey.


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Old 11-29-2014, 10:08 PM
 
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I don't mind it in person, when the person is obviously trying to be nice and you know that's just who they are.

On these forums? Usually someone calls you that they're being derogatory.
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Old 11-29-2014, 10:18 PM
 
Location: Leaving fabulous Las Vegas, Nevada
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Embrace it! There isn't enough love in the world these days and if a Southern woman is giving you those endearments, she at least likes you.

As a Southern girl myself, I really miss hearing them.
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