Would you forgive a former bully if they did a major good deed?

[Veronica97]

Thank you all for taking the time to share your opinions. Since my brother is doing well, I'll be stepping back now and let him work on it himself.

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

Your forgiveness will improve your character but never change his
Foregivness is letting go of hate not doormatting

By having him on our fb and inviting him over on Friday for the first time, that's the start of forgiving.

[Chowhound]

I'll forgive a lot if it's sincere and real.

[mikefong123]

The greatest gift a person can give to another person is LIFE. If it wasn't for him....Your brother may not be alive. The debt is paid ten fold.

[Veronica97]

Originally Posted by mikefong123

The greatest gift a person can give to another person is LIFE. If it wasn't for him....Your brother may not be alive. The debt is paid ten fold.

True

Originally Posted by Chowhound

I'll forgive a lot if it's sincere and real.

Sounds like he did changed for the better. He just recently gave a donation to an animal charity program.

I'm impressed. He went from a bully to now a good friend to my brother. I guess a ''come to jesus'' moment as someone else suggested before is all someone needs once.