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Old 12-04-2009, 10:57 PM
 
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I have a friend who likes to snuggle but I am not into that touchy feely stuff. She like hugs and she like to snuggle. I don't think I can snuggle because to me the world tells me it is a bad thing. It is not like we like each other in a sexual way. Please help! I would like to read your feedback!
We've established now that you're female... your first post left a lot of confusion without that little bit of information.

First, let me say this: I don't care what the world tells you. Most of the time, the world is wrong. Listen to your heart, and let your own morals guide you.

With that out of the way, I see nothing wrong with two females snuggling. I've had a lot of friends that did that, but were never attracted to one another in any way. In most situations, it's perfectly acceptable. But, if you're personally uncomfortable with it, then I would just simply tell her so. Communication goes a long way in friendships..

In truth, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Some people are just like that..
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Old 12-04-2009, 11:36 PM
 
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And why is it wrong for guys to cuddle? They like warmth and cushiness too.

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Girls, OK--Guys, not so much
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Old 12-04-2009, 11:42 PM
 
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And why is it wrong for guys to cuddle? They like warmth and cushiness too.
Alright dude, just picture this: Furry legs brushing up against your own, his manly arms wrapped around your waist, and that un-shaven growth tickling your neck..

I think I just threw up a little in my mouth. I'll pass.
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Old 12-05-2009, 12:47 AM
 
Location: AR
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I may be terribly old school for 24, but straight people shouldn't snuggle.

Sorry. The PC Gestapo will be along to take me to the backroads shortly.
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Old 12-05-2009, 12:54 AM
 
Location: Ostend,Belgium....
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depends on what you grow up with or what culture you're from. I'm not used to any type physical contact, hugs or anything...since birth. So for me, it's hard to even do the kissing thing Europeans do, the three pecks on the cheeck thing...so cuddling with another woman would be very uncomfortable for me. It's something each person has to decide for themselves...and whatever you're both comfortable with.
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Old 12-05-2009, 01:24 AM
 
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If you're comfortable with it, do it. Screw the world. If you're not, then don't. It's up to YOU. YOU make the call. Screw everyone else.
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Old 12-05-2009, 02:18 AM
 
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What happens if he is clean shaven and handsome? And fur isn't bad.



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Alright dude, just picture this: Furry legs brushing up against your own, his manly arms wrapped around your waist, and that un-shaven growth tickling your neck..

I think I just threw up a little in my mouth. I'll pass.
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Old 12-05-2009, 02:19 AM
 
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Oh no it is okay. The PC Gestapo is a lot more lenient than the Jesus Christ Gestapo.

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I may be terribly old school for 24, but straight people shouldn't snuggle.

Sorry. The PC Gestapo will be along to take me to the backroads shortly.
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Old 12-05-2009, 03:58 AM
 
Location: Charlotte. Or Detroit.
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Of course two heterosexual friends can snuggle. I'm not sure I even understand the question. Why couldn't they?

I don't snuggle with any of my friends, male or female. I get my snuggle fix from my fiancée, they from their significant others. But if for some reason a buddy came to me with a severe snuggle deficiency I like to think I'd be man enough to step up to the plate and help a brother out.
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Old 12-05-2009, 08:55 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Personally, I am not snuggling with anyone of the same sex (I assume this is what you mean). I'm not THAT good of a friend.
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