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I have a friend who likes to snuggle but I am not into that touchy feely stuff. She like hugs and she like to snuggle. I don't think I can snuggle because to me the world tells me it is a bad thing. It is not like we like each other in a sexual way. Please help! I would like to read your feedback!
Um, sorry. I aint be snuggling with some chick - no matter how good of friends we are!!! No way in Hell!!! Not gonna happen.
I have a friend who likes to snuggle but I am not into that touchy feely stuff. She like hugs and she like to snuggle. I don't think I can snuggle because to me the world tells me it is a bad thing. It is not like we like each other in a sexual way. Please help! I would like to read your feedback!
I think it has a lot to do with the background and culture. I'm from Eastern Europe and it's pretty common for 2 female friends to just lay next to each other and hug/cuddle on the bed while talking about boys. I remember being a young teenager and sleeping over my best friend's house and waking up in a spoon position with her. We thought nothing of it. Growing up, it was common to see 2 women holding hands while walking together.
In this country, certain things are just taboo. I notice in general, Americans are very uptight about many things. God forbid somebody will mistaken them for homosexuals!!!
We've established now that you're female... your first post left a lot of confusion without that little bit of information.
First, let me say this: I don't care what the world tells you. Most of the time, the world is wrong. Listen to your heart, and let your own morals guide you.
With that out of the way, I see nothing wrong with two females snuggling. I've had a lot of friends that did that, but were never attracted to one another in any way. In most situations, it's perfectly acceptable. But, if you're personally uncomfortable with it, then I would just simply tell her so. Communication goes a long way in friendships..
In truth, I wouldn't worry too much about it. Some people are just like that..
YEAH!!! What he said!!!!
YEAH!!! That's what Michael Jackson did. Slept with little children. Cuddling and holding hands.
YEAH! YEAH! TO HEX WITH THE WORLD>
I'm being completely sarcastic...and probably borderline rude.
I have a friend who likes to snuggle but I am not into that touchy feely stuff. She like hugs and she like to snuggle. I don't think I can snuggle because to me the world tells me it is a bad thing. It is not like we like each other in a sexual way. Please help! I would like to read your feedback!
Woe... I am not a very touchy feel-ly person at all. I am really really not that way with other women. If one of my girl friends asked me to snuggle, I would freak completely out. Then again they would not ask b/c they know... I would explain the boundaries to my friend in no uncertain terms and I would not do anything that made me in the least bit uncomfortable.
Thus...the invention of the body bump after a touchdown.
For years the little slap on the butt for a "good job" was alright.
Then when making a touchdown it was a great big hug by everyone on the team...
Now? A run toward each other after the touch down catch as if to hug them they jump in the air and twist as to only hit each other's sides as a means of affection and approval.
That and between two females who are obviously sexually aroused by each other; to the point where one would look for the validation of strangers on a public forum?
That and between two females who are obviously sexually around by each other; to the point where one would look for the validation of strangers on a public forum?
I have a friend who likes to snuggle but I am not into that touchy feely stuff. She like hugs and she like to snuggle. I don't think I can snuggle because to me the world tells me it is a bad thing. It is not like we like each other in a sexual way. Please help! I would like to read your feedback!
No...if someone of the same sex wants to snuggle, and they're not your child, they're gay.
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completely out. Then again they would not ask b/c they know... I would explain the boundaries to my friend in no uncertain terms and I would not do anything that made me in the least bit uncomfortable.
