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I’m sorry but I can’t have Champagne tastes on a beer bottle budget, however I try to enjoy whatever good things come my way and do the best I can with what I’ve got. Life is happy and simple that way for me.
I want to move to a different house! I live in a spacious, lovely home. But it is the house my husband had before we were married and I want something we choose together. This house is too big and just doesn't suit me even though I continue to improve it and try to make it mine.....been living here 6 years & just can't seem to love it. But the housing market stinks so here we live.... I don't pay a penny on it, DH pays for everything; do I have a right to complain???
Be frustrated at the housing market? Yes.
Being frustrated at your husband about the situation? No.
I have just had a beer and I am not a drinker, so take my advice for what it's worth cause it might would be a little different on another day. Of course u have the right to complain... But here's the thing about "hight class problems" they could alter ur relationship with ur spouse ultimately. Ingratitude and discontentment are not benign emotions. They may take u in a direction u don't want to go in like paying ur own rent/mortgage and seeing some hot rocking young babe living satisfied w/ ur spouse's in ur old home. See the good and be happy. It is a choice good luck.
Last edited by sun queen; 04-01-2011 at 04:45 PM..
Anything I complain about pales in comparison to what others are facing.
Sure, I can sit here and feel sorry for myself all day.
I have food, clean water, a hot shower, a matress and a pillow. (i'm not even in prison)
Most importantly I have people who love me.
Sounds to me like you dont appreciate what you have, and dont look on the other side of the fence at the brown dead grass.
In my first marriage years ago, my former husband used to tell me to quit my complaining..... I had "High Class Problems." Well, an alcoholic spouse is NOT a high class problem (one that I shed) but the concept has stuck with me. Throughout the years, when something annoys me I always ask myself what level of problem is this. Seems in these tough economic times for so many, I become a little ashamed to voice my high class problems. But I want to complain .. so here's mine:
I want to move to a different house! I live in a spacious, lovely home. But it is the house my husband had before we were married and I want something we choose together. This house is too big and just doesn't suit me even though I continue to improve it and try to make it mine.....been living here 6 years & just can't seem to love it. But the housing market stinks so here we live.... I don't pay a penny on it, DH pays for everything; do I have a right to complain???
What's YOUR high class problem... c'mon, I know you have one!
Cry me a river...I'd take your high class problem in a heartbeat!
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Champagne tastes on a beer bottle budget
.. so here's mine:
