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When kids grow up, they don't have to stay in touch with parents or even talk to them. It's not a good idea to treat kdis badly, they may not want a relationship with you when they're older.
Wow, I read this whole thread and I'm pretty shocked by some of the responses on here. I can't believe that some people on here think that a teen boy deserved to die for having sex with his consenting girlfriend. Unbelievable. This boy could have died or had permanent brain damage, getting beaten with a pipe is more than extreme. This dad did not think his daughter was being raped, he saw a naked boy in her room and was appalled that his innocent girl wasn't so innocent. You people need to get over your puritanical leanings. Teens sneak in their lover's windows all the time. I would not condone my children sneaking anyone in but a beating that could result in death or permanent disability would not be the consequence of said behavior. I have a son and a daughter and there would be consequences for both of them if they brought people into the house at night without permission.
What's up with people calling the girl a s -l -u- t for having sex with her boyfriend of a year. I guess the vast majority of women are sluts then, as only a miniscule percentage of women would not be engaging in sex with their boyfriend after a year. I guess if females like sex that makes them "sluts".
Also, some posters mentioned beating the daughter later with a pipe.. that is the definition of child abuse and a long prison sentence is what you'd deserve.
If someone beat/killed/disabled my teenager for having consensual sex with their girlfriend and the charges were dropped, he and I would have a "talk" outside his home and this time he would not be the one with the pipe
Wow, I read this whole thread and I'm pretty shocked by some of the responses on here. I can't believe that some people on here think that a teen boy deserved to die for having sex with his consenting girlfriend. Unbelievable. This boy could have died or had permanent brain damage, getting beaten with a pipe is more than extreme. This dad did not think his daughter was being raped, he saw a naked boy in her room and was appalled that his innocent girl wasn't so innocent. You people need to get over your puritanical leanings. Teens sneak in their lover's windows all the time. I would not condone my children sneaking anyone in but a beating that could result in death or permanent disability would not be the consequence of said behavior. I have a son and a daughter and there would be consequences for both of them if they brought people into the house at night without permission.
What's up with people calling the girl a s -l -u- t for having sex with her boyfriend of a year. I guess the vast majority of women are sluts then, as only a miniscule percentage of women would not be engaging in sex with their boyfriend after a year. I guess if females like sex that makes them "sluts".
Also, some posters mentioned beating the daughter later with a pipe.. that is the definition of child abuse and a long prison sentence is what you'd deserve.
If someone beat/killed/disabled my teenager for having consensual sex with their girlfriend and the charges were dropped, he and I would have a "talk" outside his home and this time he would not be the one with the pipe
And then YOU would be in jail. Longer than the father in fact! Much much much longer. You would have "planned" that attack!
And I'm sorry, he didn't know she had a boyfriend and he had no permission in the house. Sounds like she was quite sneaky herself and shouldn't be allowed to have anyone over for quite some time WITH permission!
I'm glad he wasn't hurt more serious but he took the chance by entering the house without the OWNER'S permission.
When kids grow up, they don't have to stay in touch with parents or even talk to them. It's not a good idea to treat kdis badly, they may not want a relationship with you when they're older.
"Hey mom and dad. If you don't let me have sex in your house and NOT follow any of your rules I'm not going to talk to you when I get to be a big girl."
And then YOU would be in jail. Longer than the father in fact! Much much much longer. You would have "planned" that attack!
And I'm sorry, he didn't know she had a boyfriend and he had no permission in the house. Sounds like she was quite sneaky herself and shouldn't be allowed to have anyone over for quite some time WITH permission!
I'm glad he wasn't hurt more serious but he took the chance by entering the house without the OWNER'S permission.
So with this line of thinking anytime a minor invites someone over, even if they use the front door and it's the middle of the day, and they didn't ask their parents permission their parent can chase that person out and beat them with a pipe?
So with this line of thinking anytime a minor invites someone over, even if they use the front door and it's the middle of the day, and they didn't ask their parents permission their parent can chase that person out and beat them with a pipe?
That doesn't make sense with "my line of thinking!"
He SNUCK in WITHOUT permission and was a NAKED MAN in a MINOR'S BED!!!
WIth that aside, the father didn't know any of that. He saw a strange man in his daughter's bed and didn't know the daughter had a boyfriend. He heard strange noises and got a weapon. Many would have done the same
Many of you keep saying the "link is broken" to the actual story. It's a simple google away!
And by the way. The fact that the father was arrested means nothing. I'm sure the charges will be dropped or some court fines may come up. But I'm also sure the boy will be charged with something as well. And hopefully the girl punished.
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"Hey mom and dad. If you don't let me have sex in your house and NOT follow any of your rules I'm not going to talk to you when I get to be a big girl."
Right! GirlsRpeopletoo, give your parents the ultimatum and let us know how it goes. I don't believe for a second you're not a teenager.
And then YOU would be in jail. Longer than the father in fact! Much much much longer. You would have "planned" that attack!
And I'm sorry, he didn't know she had a boyfriend and he had no permission in the house. Sounds like she was quite sneaky herself and shouldn't be allowed to have anyone over for quite some time WITH permission!
I'm glad he wasn't hurt more serious but he took the chance by entering the house without the OWNER'S permission.
He had permission from the girl. She was the one who snuck him in. You said he took a big chance by entering without the owner's permission. And other posters have said as well as you that minor children have no authority to invite people into their house, so I'm wondering if the time of day and entry method were changed the situation should still be the same, right?
He had permission from the girl. She was the one who snuck him in. You said he took a big chance by entering without the owner's permission. And other posters have said as well as you that minor children have no authority to invite people into their house, so I'm wondering if the time of day and entry method were changed the situation should still be the same, right?
If the parent said "no visitors" when you get home from school and it was during the day of course!!! I'm not saying the girl is innocent.
It's a little bit different if the father came home in daylight and they were eating cookies at the kitchen table
...(Dad) saw a naked boy in her (his daughter's) room and was appalled that his innocent girl wasn't so innocent. You people need to get over your puritanical leanings...
That's the way I see it, too. Dad was MIFFED not only at the boy but at his daughter as well. He may have suspected (or perhaps he truly was 100% clueless, which is a shame) that she was not so innocent but here was proof positive, right in his own home. I don't think for a moment that he was acting out of fear that she was being raped. I'm betting he was acting out of unbridled anger.
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Originally Posted by Drowningintherain2
...Also, some posters mentioned beating the daughter later with a pipe..
Shocking, isn't it? I sincerely hope the people who suggest these sorts of things are merely blowing smoke (easy enough to do with internet anonymity) and have more sense than to do such things in real life.
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Originally Posted by skahar
So with this line of thinking anytime a minor invites someone over, even if they use the front door and it's the middle of the day, and they didn't ask their parents permission their parent can chase that person out and beat them with a pipe?
Sounds like it, eh? How sad.
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that is the definition of child abuse and a long prison sentence is what you'd deserve.
