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Old 05-02-2018, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Milwaukee Area of WI
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I am thinking of redoing my Will but I wonder if a Trust is better (?)
Also, I did my own Will with Quicken software about 6 years ago. Has anyone on here done their own Trust instead of using a lawyer? If so, what software did you use and would you recommend it?
Thanks in advance. Just doing research online but wanted to use this forum as well to get opinions from others
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Old 05-02-2018, 11:09 AM
 
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no one can tell you .

it depends on the reasons. there are many different kinds of trusts for different purposes .

we have no use for a trust anymore now that our kids are grown . so we have just a will .

you need to consult an estate attorney . at one time we required a special trust called a disclaimer trust before ny raised it's pass through exclusion to the same as federal levels . that was for state tax purposes .

there are so many different trusts and reasons for them . as an example avoiding probate trusts work opposite medicaid planning trusts . they are totally opposite to each other
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Old 05-02-2018, 11:27 AM
 
Location: Milwaukee Area of WI
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no one can tell you .

it depends on the reasons. there are many different kinds of trusts for different purposes .

we have no use for a trust anymore now that our kids are grown . so we have just a will .

you need to consult an estate attorney . at one time we required a special trust called a disclaimer trust before ny raised it's pass through exclusion to the same as federal levels . that was for state tax purposes .

there are so many different trusts and reasons for them . as an example avoiding probate trusts work opposite medicaid planning trusts . they are totally opposite to each other
It is very confusing but I am learning
Thanks
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Old 05-02-2018, 11:31 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia/South Jersey area
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Nope, I used a lawyer. there are some things I deemed way too important to leave up to my little brain. Now when my husband died my kids where still minors so I needed a trust to make sure they wouldn't blow my dough on a pole dancer named "cinnamon" . lol

now as they get older when I have my papers redone I'll have to reevaluate what is best but again it's not something I want to get wrong so I'll consulate an estate planning attorney.

lol, although for some reason my 22 year old is driving me nutz so I may just blow all of it on a pool boy. ***sighs***
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Old 05-02-2018, 11:34 AM
 
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i would never ever even do a will today on my own . i already experienced 2x the results of poorly constructed documents
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Old 05-02-2018, 11:35 AM
 
Location: planet earth
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I used Nolo.
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Old 05-02-2018, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Milwaukee Area of WI
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Nope, I used a lawyer. there are some things I deemed way too important to leave up to my little brain. Now when my husband died my kids where still minors so I needed a trust to make sure they wouldn't blow my dough on a pole dancer named "cinnamon" . lol

now as they get older when I have my papers redone I'll have to reevaluate what is best but again it's not something I want to get wrong so I'll consulate an estate planning attorney.

lol, although for some reason my 22 year old is driving me nutz so I may just blow all of it on a pool boy. ***sighs***
OMG, that made me giggle!

You go girl! LOL
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Old 05-02-2018, 11:39 AM
 
Location: Milwaukee Area of WI
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I used Nolo.
I did see Nolo online and I am looking into it
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Old 05-02-2018, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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We have a trust. Initially written by a lawyer. We add or remove as needed for assets. It has a pour over will. Basically saying refer to trust.
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Old 05-02-2018, 11:42 AM
 
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nothing is ever a problem until it is a problem has never been truer than with wills and trusts .

unfortunately intent means nothing if verbiage is deemed missing or defective . many times states change forms too . ny instituted a whole new lengthier power of attorney form and is now a statutory form .

banks and brokerages no longer have to accept the older forms so it can be a problem .

we had a closing on a refinanced house stopped . the will said i leave my house and possessions to my child beth .

it failed to have the word "only" as in only child .

this stuff can be a minefield in action .

we only use the best estate attorney we can find for any documents . we already had 2 instances of major grief because of poor construction by general practitioners . these folks did not want to pay for a good estate attorney and it cost the heirs a load of money needlessly in the end .

any thought of doing one myself is not even an option anymore
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