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And again, the first thing anti-gay extremists think of is anal sex. Thou doth protest too much.
1) Being gay is not all about sex and 2) More heterosexuals have anal sex than gays.
You guys also really need to learn the definition of "natural" because you misuse it on a daily basis.
I never met a homosexual who was not into anal sex, and I've spent a lot of time in gay bars and around gay friends. All many of them talk about all the time is anal sex, top or bottom, etc. When you go into a gay bar and meet someone new, 95% of the time the first thing they will ask you is "are you a top or a bottom", referring to your preferred anal sex position. A "gay" man who does not like anal sex is not considered a true homosexual. There is actually a term for it, its homosexual-oriented asexual, and its going to be very, very hard for that person to find a mate.
Yes in sheer numbers there is probably more heterosexuals that have anal sex but percentage wise it is nearly all of homosexuals and much lower in heterosexuals.
I could care less if something is natural or normal. What is the practical concern about homosexuals and anal sex? That HIV can be spread more easily via anal sex than vaginal intercourse? If so, and that's the anti-gay agenda (safety from STDs), why are they not fighting for all women to be lesbians? Their sexual practices are even safer. People can't even say "Our species will go extinct!" anymore, because of artificial insemination.
Why do we allow such a dangerous thing as vaginal intercourse? Just a question.
You'll find plenty of stats that prove the point, hetro anal sex is no fallacy.
If 10% of the population is gay and EVERY ONE of them engaged in anal sex than is one third of the number of straight females that engage in anal sex, and that is based on a 2006 survey.
I never met a homosexual who was not into anal sex, and I've spent a lot of time in gay bars and around gay friends. All many of them talk about all the time is anal sex, top or bottom, etc. When you go into a gay bar and meet someone new, 95% of the time the first thing they will ask you is "are you a top or a bottom", referring to your preferred anal sex position. A "gay" man who does not like anal sex is not considered a true homosexual. There is actually a term for it, its homosexual-oriented asexual, and its going to be very, very hard for that person to find a mate.
Yes in sheer numbers there is probably more heterosexuals that have anal sex but percentage wise it is nearly all of homosexuals and much lower in heterosexuals.
You gotta luv someone, a non gay, that professes to speak for ALL gays because they know a few gay people from one watering hole. Even without visiting your world i'd suggest that BJ's are much more popular, that, 'are you into oral?' Is a much more common question in a bar scene. Beyond that, I gotta call BS on your inventive post, in a hetro dating scene, even a "meat market" opening a conversation with a what are your sexual preferences question would probably get you either laughed at or slapped. Why do you think gays by pass the ritualistic aspects of the "hunt" and dating? Your implication is gays are only into raw sex and friendships, companionship and love don't exist. My own experience tells me you're wrong. I have installed hundreds of kitchens in my early years. I have worked for several dozen gay couples over the years, worked in their homes, and not one appeared to exhibit this "rabbits in heat" behaviour you describe.
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You gotta luv someone, a non gay, that professes to speak for ALL gays because they know a few gay people from one watering hole. Even without visiting your world i'd suggest that BJ's are much more popular, that, 'are you into oral?' Is a much more common question in a bar scene. Beyond that, I gotta call BS on your inventive post, in a hetro dating scene, even a "meat market" opening a conversation with a what are your sexual preferences question would probably get you either laughed at or slapped. Why do you think gays by pass the ritualistic aspects of the "hunt" and dating? Your implication is gays are only into raw sex and friendships, companionship and love don't exist. My own experience tells me you're wrong. I have installed hundreds of kitchens in my early years. I have worked for several dozen gay couples over the years, worked in their homes, and not one appeared to exhibit this "rabbits in heat" behaviour you describe.
And those ones usually avoid the bar scene.
I have been to several gay clubs in three different cities and it was the same thing in every one. Most people were only there for sex or drugs, and when you meet someone the "top or bottom" question comes very quickly. I went to a gay "pool party" one time and it devolved into a free-for-all sex orgy. This is the way MOST of the gay "scene" is which is why the stereotype that gays are promiscuous exists. Disclaimer that not everyone who is gay is like that, but a majority, at least those in the bar/club scene and on dating websites care about nothing but sex.
I have been to several gay clubs in three different cities and it was the same thing in every one. Most people were only there for sex or drugs, and when you meet someone the "top or bottom" question comes very quickly. I went to a gay "pool party" one time and it devolved into a free-for-all sex orgy. This is the way MOST of the gay "scene" is which is why the stereotype that gays are promiscuous exists. Disclaimer that not everyone who is gay is like that, but a majority, at least those in the bar/club scene and on dating websites care about nothing but sex.
I have no idea who you're hanging around with, but it doesn't describe me or anybody I know. And I sincerely doubt that a "majority" are doing the same. Back yourself up with statistics or back off, bud.
I never met a homosexual who was not into anal sex, and I've spent a lot of time in gay bars and around gay friends. All many of them talk about all the time is anal sex, top or bottom, etc. When you go into a gay bar and meet someone new, 95% of the time the first thing they will ask you is "are you a top or a bottom", referring to your preferred anal sex position. A "gay" man who does not like anal sex is not considered a true homosexual. There is actually a term for it, its homosexual-oriented asexual, and its going to be very, very hard for that person to find a mate.
Entirely untrue. All of it.
So in a sample size of, what, a couple or three visits to gay bars, you hear the "top or bottom" question. Wow, that's some convincing statistics! Next time you're there, get on the loudspeaker and ask for a show of hands. How many are REALLY active in anal sex? Not just looking at porn - everyone does that - but who here has REALLY engaged in anal sex? It was posted earlier (perhaps in another thread), perhaps about 60%. Certainly not ALL gay guys do anal - It isn't exactly the most comfortable position to be in. Some find it painful. Some find it humiliating.
Most people are heterosexual. By definition therefore, homosexuality is not "normal." It's normal that a small percentage of people will be homosexuals, but I can't see the utility in this conversation?
"Natural" is a meaningless word. Pedophilia is "natural" in as much as people engage in it and have engaged in it since the beginning of time. So you can see it's a pointless argument.
The question of worth is whether or not homosexuality is morally acceptable.
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