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Old 06-16-2013, 08:49 PM
 
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I've thought about this controversial issue for quite sometime.

I'm a black American woman that simply can not understand why so many poor urban women continue to have children, without any male support. Obviously, the overall rapid decay of vast urban communities, seem to prove that single parent homes are ineffective. Sadly, the children almost always end up either dead or in jail.

Given the grim circumstances, why do urban women continue to have out of wedlock children, without any male assistance or help from their male partners?
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Old 06-16-2013, 08:52 PM
 
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Mo chillin's = mo money
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Old 06-16-2013, 08:53 PM
 
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Mo chillin's = mo money
Not really. Welfare reform put an end to the increases. Most impoverished women can not simply collect welfare, without agreeing to partake in the welfare to work/menial job program.
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Old 06-16-2013, 08:57 PM
 
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No they won't. "But he's a good boy" is all they know.
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Old 06-16-2013, 08:59 PM
 
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Urban areas are filled with poverty and crime. Obviously, the current model is not working out well. It just doesn't make sense to engage in practices that are clearly self-destructive.
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Old 06-16-2013, 08:59 PM
 
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I've thought about this controversial issue for quite sometime.

I'm a black American woman that simply can not understand why so many poor urban women continue to have children, without any male support. Obviously, the overall rapid decay of vast urban communities, seem to prove that single parent homes are ineffective. Sadly, the children almost always end up either dead or in jail.

Given the grim circumstances, why do urban women continue to have out of wedlock children, without any male assistance or help from their male partners?
Because women have some innate desire to procreate, even if they very well shouldn't. Poor people in general have very poor impulse control

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Not really. Welfare reform put an end to the increases. Most impoverished women can not simply collect welfare, without agreeing to partake in the welfare to work/menial job program.
You're talking to someone, along with his co-thinkers, that thinks food stamps can buy you lobster dinner with filet mignon every night
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Old 06-16-2013, 09:00 PM
 
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not really. Welfare reform put an end to the increases. Most impoverished women can not simply collect welfare, without agreeing to partake in the welfare to work/menial job program.

Oh bull****. There are so many ways around that crap it isn't even funny.
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Old 06-16-2013, 09:01 PM
 
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You're talking to someone, along with his co-thinkers, that thinks food stamps can buy you lobster dinner with filet mignon every night
She was talking to someone who knows all too well that welfare and food assistance abuse is real. I don't know where you got your lobster and filet BS from, maybe you're thinking of someone else.
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Old 06-16-2013, 09:04 PM
 
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Because women have some innate desire to procreate, even if they very well shouldn't. Poor people in general have very poor impulse control
We all have that inner desire to procreate, but common sense should intervene, if the circumstances will create havoc in our lives or quite possibly the lives of others...


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You're talking to someone, along with his co-thinkers, that thinks food stamps can buy you lobster dinner with filet mignon every night
It's laughable that people actually believe welfare recipients do well. In actuality, most earn less than 20K per year and often reside in crime infested areas.
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Old 06-16-2013, 09:07 PM
 
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She was talking to someone who knows all too well that welfare and food assistance abuse is real. I don't know where you got your lobster and filet BS from, maybe you're thinking of someone else.
Believe me, there have been several topics on SNAP benefits, and many of the RWNJs all claim to have seen people buy luxurious food with SNAP benefits, as if SNAP is some kind of bottomless pit
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