Welcome to City-Data.com Forum!
U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Politics and Other Controversies
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Closed Thread Start New Thread
 
Old 05-04-2009, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Texas
14,975 posts, read 16,466,589 times
Reputation: 4586

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by djacques View Post
Only Americans are idiotic enough to consider congressional pages "children"
They're either 16 or 17 years old. It's not pedophilia, but still wrong. Terribly wrong. If the congressmen were 20 year old "adults," it would be fine. But we're talking about 40, 50+ year old adults. That's reprehensible.

 
Old 05-04-2009, 03:36 PM
 
Location: Michigan
12,711 posts, read 13,483,423 times
Reputation: 4185
Quote:
Originally Posted by afoigrokerkok View Post
They're either 16 or 17 years old. It's not pedophilia, but still wrong. Terribly wrong. If the congressmen were 20 year old "adults," it would be fine. But we're talking about 40, 50+ year old adults. That's reprehensible.
I don't agree. If we agree that a 16 or 17 year old can be sexually active, it shouldn't matter what age their choice of partner is. What possible difference does it make?
 
Old 05-04-2009, 03:37 PM
 
26,680 posts, read 28,678,403 times
Reputation: 7943
Quote:
Originally Posted by djacques View Post
Only Americans are idiotic enough to consider congressional pages "children"
I agree with you on that, but your suggestion that most Democrats are fine with adults and teenagers having sex is what makes it difficult to take you seriously.
 
Old 05-04-2009, 03:47 PM
 
Location: Michigan
12,711 posts, read 13,483,423 times
Reputation: 4185
Quote:
Originally Posted by AnUnidentifiedMale View Post
I agree with you on that, but your suggestion that most Democrats are fine with adults and teenagers having sex is what makes it difficult to take you seriously.
Yeah, that part was semi-joking, but I clarified it.

The weird thing about that so-called scandal though, is that it vindicated everything I've said about teenagers all along: that they know how to say no to an advance they don't want. Not one of the teenagers fell for Foley's charms. Yet that point has been studiously ignored.
 
Old 05-04-2009, 03:48 PM
 
Location: Texas
14,975 posts, read 16,466,589 times
Reputation: 4586
Quote:
Originally Posted by djacques View Post
I don't agree. If we agree that a 16 or 17 year old can be sexually active, it shouldn't matter what age their choice of partner is. What possible difference does it make?
Manipulation/coercion

And we agree they can be sexually active, but we do not agree that they should be, even with other kids their own age.

Last edited by afoigrokerkok; 05-04-2009 at 04:00 PM..
 
Old 05-04-2009, 04:01 PM
 
Location: Michigan
12,711 posts, read 13,483,423 times
Reputation: 4185
Quote:
Originally Posted by afoigrokerkok View Post
Manipulation/coercion
That's a bunch of complete and total bull****. If even a congressman, with all his wealth and power, couldn't even manipulate/coerce himself into one teenager's pants, what do you think are the odds of an average 50-year-old Joe Schmoe doing it?

If a 16- or 17-year-old is sleeping with someone, I'm going to assume until proven otherwise that it's because they want to. You can live in right-wing la-la-land if you prefer.
 
Old 05-04-2009, 04:19 PM
 
48,502 posts, read 96,877,697 times
Reputation: 18304
You live in a perverted land of the perverts;if you really think a 16-17 year old is grownup IMO.In msost satates it considered rape;plain and simple.
 
Old 05-04-2009, 04:23 PM
 
Location: Michigan
12,711 posts, read 13,483,423 times
Reputation: 4185
Quote:
Originally Posted by texdav View Post
You live in a perverted land of the perverts;if you really think a 16-17 year old is grownup IMO.In msost satates it considered rape;plain and simple.
In most states, it absolutely is not. The age of consent is 16 in most states. Look it up.

But with that being said, it really doesn't matter if the law calls it rape; it isn't. The law might choose to call a dog's tail a leg, but that doesn't make it a leg.
 
Old 05-04-2009, 04:51 PM
 
26,680 posts, read 28,678,403 times
Reputation: 7943
Quote:
Originally Posted by djacques View Post
Yeah, that part was semi-joking, but I clarified it.

The weird thing about that so-called scandal though, is that it vindicated everything I've said about teenagers all along: that they know how to say no to an advance they don't want. Not one of the teenagers fell for Foley's charms. Yet that point has been studiously ignored.
Okay, good, thanks for clarifying. Now I can take you seriously again.

I do agree with you. Teenagers deserve more credit than they're given. It seems like many adults want to treat 16-year-olds in the same way they treat 6-year-olds when it comes to sex and relationships.

The young guy having the IM with Foley wasn't afraid, and he wasn't being trapped or forced into anything. To me, the IMs between the two of them were unprofessional, but not much worse than the unprofessional behavior that occurs between adults in the workplace every day.
 
Old 05-04-2009, 04:55 PM
 
26,680 posts, read 28,678,403 times
Reputation: 7943
Quote:
Originally Posted by texdav View Post
You live in a perverted land of the perverts;if you really think a 16-17 year old is grownup IMO.In msost satates it considered rape;plain and simple.
No, it's not so plain and simple. In most states, the age of consent is 16, and then there's usually an exception given that allows someone three or four years older to have sex with them legally.

Obviously, Foley was much older, but I just wanted to point out that it is legal for many teenagers in this country to have sex with adults, albeit, young adults.

Ages of consent in North America - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Closed Thread


Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Politics and Other Controversies
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6. The time now is 10:59 AM.

© 2005-2024, Advameg, Inc. · Please obey Forum Rules · Terms of Use and Privacy Policy · Bug Bounty

City-Data.com - Contact Us - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35, 36, 37 - Top