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Old 03-04-2010, 11:18 PM
 
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I think both are inappropriate and unacceptable. A teacher, whether male or female should be held to certain moral standards, and having sex w/ a student is totally unethical.
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Old 03-04-2010, 11:25 PM
 
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Not fair!! They didn't let us bring in paper or pencils or ANYTHING I counted the tiles on the floor, on the ceiling, number of trees outside, made up probability games with cars passing, etc. Come to think of it, maybe that is why I like and am good at statistics
Oh you got ripped! Although if you're a statistic fiend now, maybe it wasn't such a bad thing?

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In the states I think many of these rules in many places were dropped due to parental objections, which I think is odd As kids, we didn't object or protest them or anything. They were just another set of stupid rules adults made us follow. Are things still the same in Australia or did the dress code thing get dropped?
Yes I think probably the inspection side of it has been dropped or maybe toned down, although I'm not really around High School kids now to know.They still wear uniforms so I imagine that there's still a dress code they have to adhere to. Just doubt strongly that they're implementing it in the same ways they did for us.

I don't think it did us any harm, and I certainly think that even though it didn't seem to do a whole lot in terms of keeping us from overt displays of sexuality I think the constant inspection or the knowing that we were being scrutinized didn't do any harm. Still we did have cases of teachers over stepping the mark with students in a sexual sense even then and I don't think it had a whole lot to do with uniform length.

It would be an interesting angle for a sociology experiment I reckon...

Does uniform length in any way impact on the number of student/teacher sexual relations?

In general I think we as a society have changed a good deal since then so not only are measuring uniform skirt lengths a thing of the past I also think there's been a increase in teachers becoming sexually entangled with students based on things like the change in cultural expectation and moral values (man I hate that term ) and the absolute saturation on society of the me culture and sexual objectification.....
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Old 03-04-2010, 11:33 PM
 
Location: Tempe, AZ
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......Yes I think probably the inspection side of it has been dropped or maybe toned down, although I'm not really around High School kids now to know.They still wear uniforms so I imagine that there's still a dress code they have to adhere to. Just doubt strongly that they're implementing it in the same ways they did for us.

I don't think it did us any harm, and I certainly think that even though it didn't seem to do a whole lot in terms of keeping us from overt displays of sexuality I think the constant inspection or the knowing that we were being scrutinized didn't do any harm. Still we did have cases of teachers over stepping the mark with students in a sexual sense even then and I don't think it had a whole lot to do with uniform length.

It would be an interesting angle for a sociology experiment I reckon...

Does uniform length in any way impact on the number of student/teacher sexual relations?

In general I think we as a society have changed a good deal since then so not only are measuring uniform skirt lengths a thing of the past I also think there's been a increase in teachers becoming sexually entangled with students based on things like the change in cultural expectation and moral values (man I hate that term ) and the absolute saturation on society of the me culture and sexual objectification.....
I agree with everything you say here. We didn't have uniforms, but still had the dress code. In my HS years one girl married a teacher and one got pregnant by one (awful case, she was moderately retarded and he was the special ed teacher. He amazingly did not lose his job). I have no idea if it is better or worse now as I have not lived in my home state since HS and am also not around HS kids.

The sociology study would be interesting.
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Old 03-05-2010, 12:07 AM
 
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I agree with everything you say here. We didn't have uniforms, but still had the dress code. In my HS years one girl married a teacher and one got pregnant by one (awful case, she was moderately retarded and he was the special ed teacher. He amazingly did not lose his job). I have no idea if it is better or worse now as I have not lived in my home state since HS and am also not around HS kids.

The sociology study would be interesting.
Well attitudes have changed to it as well I think. Like it happened back then but seemingly there wasn't the laws in place to prosecute in the same way that there is now, not to mention there's an element of witch hunt to it in some cases and I'm really not sure that I'm convinced that the sex offender register is being implemented properly. That's not to say we don't need one only that the inclusion of some and the exclusion of others seems to be a bit ad hoc to me. Nor do I condone sexual predation but I really think it needs to be examined, judged and punished on a case by case basis.

Wonder if there's already been a sociology study on it? Might have to go hunting.
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Old 03-05-2010, 12:15 AM
 
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Well attitudes have changed to it as well I think. Like it happened back then but seemingly there wasn't the laws in place to prosecute in the same way that there is now, not to mention there's an element of witch hunt to it in some cases and I'm really not sure that I'm convinced that the sex offender register is being implemented properly. That's not to say we don't need one only that the inclusion of some and the exclusion of others seems to be a bit ad hoc to me. Nor do I condone sexual predation but I really think it needs to be examined, judged and punished on a case by case basis.

Wonder if there's already been a sociology study on it? Might have to go hunting.
Here is link a good Economist article on this topic: Premium content | Economist.com

If you find any sociology studies definitely post them!
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Old 03-05-2010, 12:31 AM
 
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Here is link a good Economist article on this topic: Premium content | Economist.com

If you find any sociology studies definitely post them!
Can't open it.

Looks interesting the little bit I could read though. Thank you.

Will have to do my hunting a little later mary, as it's dinner time here and it's all happening. I will most definitely post if I find anything.
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Old 03-05-2010, 12:35 AM
 
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Can't open it.

Looks interesting the little bit I could read though. Thank you.

Will have to do my hunting a little later mary, as it's dinner time here and it's all happening. I will most definitely post if I find anything.
Oops! Forgot that you need a subscription to read the archives. This is a decent synopsis Connect Safely |US sex-offender laws, registries not conducive to child safety | NetFamilyNews
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Old 03-05-2010, 12:55 AM
 
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Oops! Forgot that you need a subscription to read the archives. This is a decent synopsis Connect Safely |US sex-offender laws, registries not conducive to child safety | NetFamilyNews
Thanks mary! That was really interesting and pretty much addressed all of my concerns.

Best I race back to the dinner but I'll do some hunting later tonight.
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Old 03-05-2010, 03:18 AM
 
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Thanks mary! That was really interesting and pretty much addressed all of my concerns.

Best I race back to the dinner but I'll do some hunting later tonight.
Cool! I'll be interested to see the results of your research Here is a link to the Human Rights Watch report on the sex offender registry No Easy Answers | Human Rights Watch
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Old 03-05-2010, 05:42 AM
 
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I don't believe in double standards. A teacher is a teacher, regardless of sex, and has a position of authority over a student. It is wrong....period.
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