How do you react inside to being called "nice"?

[TamaraSavannah]

Ready to do a troupe dance, Paula Abdul style!

Seriously, since I know "Cold Hearted Snake" better than "Captain Nice", those are the related experiences, the related personalty traits the word falls upon and I carry on, accordingly.

"Charlie X" is not in that equation since that was a negative.

We learn to react by what we know, by what we learn. Those are the experiences I can match with "nice".......and I probably pick the most favorable, the most pleasurable.

[The Dissenter]

Originally Posted by GWTJ

If you're not a nice person, does that make you a mean person? If so, do you still have friends, and what do they like about you? I'm skeptical that you have mean words for *everyone* as in never met a human being that was likeable. Are you really just a person that is liked by less than 50% of those you've met? Dictionary calls a dissenter a nonconformist. That's me, but I often like people who are different from the majority. Is that the way you are?

Hard to explain. I fully admit I'm an ahole and make no apologies about it. What I mean by that is I'm going to express myself and my view knowing it will rarely be popular. I try to be honest even if I know it will ruffle feathers. I don't intentionally pick mean words or do mean acts but people interpret what I say as sociopathic because I'm not an emotional person and rarely show emotion.