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Hey man, to each their own. You decide what is good for you, others for themelves. I am just saying that a huge percentage of guys regardless of political leanings w*a*n*k off to porn fantasizing about what they see. While that can be fun, finding a girl that fullfills whatever sexual desire you have, conventional or otherwise is more fun. And her past doesn't reflect her future with you. If you care for her and she treats you well, then go with that.
Whoooaaaa....easy tiger....you telling me a prostitutes past doesn't dictate future? Might want to adjust those blinders...
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Well take it over to the political PUBLIC forum if you want to discuss liberal views, right winged views, etc. This is about relationships and as I recall this thread isn't about any particular politician doing porn. Move on.
Uh ... never mind ... You are not worth getting into an argument. Carry on about not judging others except when they espouse a view that differs from your own.
Your WRONG!! If you are going to quote me....get it right. I wasn't calling anyONE "sad" I said people being judgemental is sad.
You act like you've never done anything wrong or unpleasing in the eyes of another....well, I guess I can expect to see the video of you walking on water, healing the sick, etc. on YouTube then, huh? Who are you to judge someone's past?
Well the sad thing, is that all people are judgmental, at least to a degree.
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Whoooaaaa....easy tiger....you telling me a prostitutes past doesn't dictate future? Might want to adjust those blinders...
I know ... Too many folks actually believe the sexy facade on the screen and never stop to think that there are likely some serious emotional issues lurking beneath the veneer.
There's a big difference between not judging someone's past and actually having a relationship with that person. People who have done pornography or prostitution can always change and get their lives back on track. I commend them for that and would never want to begrudge them a normal life with someone who is willing to have a relationship with them. I just cannot be that person who would be willing have the relationship with that person. Let's be honest here, there are very few men and women who are willing to have a serious relationship with someone who has had as many sexual partners as someone who has done pornography, especially when many folks view sex as something sacred. That is just the way it is.
Well, then let's talk about pornography in itself then. Let's say were having sex with a partner and being filmed unknown to you. Next thing you know, it being flashed all over cell phones, internet, etc. Now, by basic definition "pornography" is the depiction of erotic behavior (as in pictures or writing) intended to cause sexual excitement.
Now you and this person broke up. You have started seeing another person and you're really into them and would like to have a relationship....but this video comes into play and he is aware of it and tells you no thanks. What then?
I know ... Too many folks actually believe the sexy facade on the screen and never stop to think that there are likely some serious emotional issues lurking beneath the veneer.
It MIGHT be o.k., it might not. To just "go with the flow" as my Aunt once said will leave you dead in this day and age....
Whoooaaaa....easy tiger....you telling me a prostitutes past doesn't dictate future? Might want to adjust those blinders...
Going back to when I answered the question of would I be serious with a woman with a certain past I said maybe, not absolutely. Of course I would realize that I need to know her well before making a commitment of the heart. I am just saying not everybody with a adult biz past is a drug user, bi polar, unhappy basket case.
And I am just saying a lot men dream of dirty sex from a girl who says "yes" and "ok" or better yet "give it to me baby" to him, yet see her as a tramp when she actually is a "ok" and "yes" girl.
But I dunno, maybe I am just different, never been a lights off with candlelight kinda guy. I am not romantic usually with sex, I am romantic before or after.
Uh ... never mind ... You are not worth getting into an argument. Carry on about not judging others except when they espouse a view that differs from your own.
Well, you're the one who chimed into a conversation that didn't include anything you were talking about. Stay out of my sandbox.....I've got enough playmates.......oh blasphemy!
Why would you wanna be on somebody's black "list"?! You wanna be in somebody's black "book"!
In my case I just qualify as being a black sheep.
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