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Old 05-18-2014, 04:13 PM
 
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Originally Posted by jade408 View Post
I don't like online or maybe online doesn't like. I am not really photogenic. My type isn't really online, or the ones that are aren't really interested in me as a type.

I just find it easier to do "targeted" socializing. I am much more successful there, and it plays more to my strengths anyway.

The people that reach out to me online are generally all wrong:
1. Mr. socially awkward (I am a social butterfly-type, bad fit)
2. Mr. Looking for a hookup. (um, no!)
3. Mr. I have no personality (boring)

I don't have time to pick at every oyster to find a pearl.
Socially awkward person? You mean, the kind of person who is bad at being fake in social situations?
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Old 05-18-2014, 06:41 PM
 
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I like in person best. Online can work but the problem is there has to be instant sparks or it rarely goes farther. With offline you can take time. Online I found more desperate and married people.
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