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Climaxing comes easier for men, therefore they're more prone to enjoying it. It's more difficult for most women until they get to know their bodies and know what does it for them...so until then...it's not an enjoyable experience.
Climaxing comes easier for men, therefore they're more prone to enjoying it. It's more difficult for most women until they get to know their bodies and know what does it for them...so until then...it's not an enjoyable experience.
Climaxing comes easier for men, therefore they're more prone to enjoying it. It's more difficult for most women until they get to know their bodies and know what does it for them...so until then...it's not an enjoyable experience.
Climaxing comes easier for men, therefore they're more prone to enjoying it. It's more difficult for most women until they get to know their bodies and know what does it for them...so until then...it's not an enjoyable experience.
I can't speak for all women but I really do enjoy sex even if there is no orgasm (though it's a definite bonus).
But, what I enjoy most is the pleasure my husband gets from what we are doing. There are times when I like to make it all about him and I still find it fun, exciting and pleasurable.
I've been on both sides of the coin here. I went through a period where if I never had sex again, it was fine by me. It lasted about 3-4 years and just recently (in the last 6 months) has that changed.
I had no drive. When you have no sex drive it's VERY hard to get into it and find it stimulating. The sensations are deadened and while it's not painful or uncomfortable, it's not pleasureable either so I always had the take-it or leave-it attitude about sex. Now, factor in that it can be messy and sweaty and that killed the appeal of sex all together. It wasn't worth the effort.
Fast forward to now...today I'm pouting and sulking because I was sure I'd get sex this morning and got the ball rolling, then it didn't happen!
As a male, I guess I direct this more toward women. But realize that there are some men not interested.
Maybe it is as simple as their partners. But once in a while I'll read that someone doesn't care if they only have sex a few times per year. I don't understand this. It feels good, especially physically, but emotionally also.
What is it about it that some people don't like?
I don't really understand it either and I'm a woman. I'm sad for people who don't like it because it's just so amazing. Also for women who say they've never had an orgasm. Some say it's no big deal and that there is more to life, which I kind of understand but I wonder if some would say that if they knew what it was like.
I'm sure some people are sad for me because I think it's such a big deal. so.. *shrug*
As a male, I guess I direct this more toward women. But realize that there are some men not interested.
Maybe it is as simple as their partners. But once in a while I'll read that someone doesn't care if they only have sex a few times per year. I don't understand this. It feels good, especially physically, but emotionally also.
What is it about it that some people don't like?
Im a male responding ...
1. Women especially, need to be in the right EMOTIONAL frame of mind in order to enjoy partaking in sex ... and oftentimes its the husband that doesnt work on THAT first ---- instead he takes a self centered attitude toward it and so, pushes the woman further away.
2. One or both people have simply low libido levels. Its ok if both are about simular because genitals dont fall off if not used regularly.
3. Sometimes there isnt the proper trust, admiration, and respect level between the two people , so it makes for infrequent sex .
4. Sometimes the couple dont get along for the most part, which makes for infrequent sex ; who wants to make the other feel real good when you dont really like them (?)
5. Sometimes one of the partners are having an extra marital affair or is involved in Porn...which the other partner resents greatly., so...you guessed it....makes for infrequent sex.
6. Some people were raised thinking sex was not as God designed it to be , and thus have a distorted view of it.
7. Some people have had very bad experiences in the bedroom with impotence, getting aroused, physical abuse, and improper demands to do things against their will ; all of these can kill or reduce the desire for sex.
8. Some people are discovering what Gods ideal is in sex...and it doesnt include fornication ; so, they make a concerted effort to avoid it until such time they get married .... and then they are able to really let loose.
9. Many people are discovering after years of casual sex according to the philosophy of our media and culture...that it is the destructive / self absorbing / ugly kind of sex , and they desire something better for themselves. , so they try hard to abandon the casual sex limelight.
10 . The very real and present National STD Epidemic that kills, makes people sterile for life, and/or gives permanent diseases....isnt worth the risk . Some dont want that for their final legacy .
The human sex drive is natural instinct. For centuries religions have been conditioning people to regard sex as something that is immoral, dirty, and makes one unclean and unfit. It's not unusual that some view sex as a sin that is promoted by the devil. This, along with social taboos (fueled by religion) have put sex in a negative perspective.
Small wonder that religious fanatics often target sex as the worst of evils.
The human sex drive is natural instinct. For centuries religions have been conditioning people to regard sex as something that is immoral, dirty, and makes one unclean and unfit. It's not unusual that some view sex as a sin that is promoted by the devil. This, along with social taboos (fueled by religion) have put sex in a negative perspective.
Small wonder that religious fanatics often target sex as the worst of evils.
Wow, bitter about religion much? Certainly not trying to make this a religion conversation, but what religions are you referring to? I know that mine encourages sex as a good, healthy and even sacred thing. Not sure what you're referring to...
Promoted by the devil? I think you lost me there.
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