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Is that just something women say? If it is, then I expect them to say the same thing in this thread. Women will almost always say that they are looking for a nice or good guy but I think most know women seem to be attracted more to men who mistreat them and put them down. You know, guys who are not nice. So, why do women constantly say that they are looking for a "nice guy" when in reality that is not what they want because that is not what they choose? Do they say that just in case word of it gets back to their Mother or Father?
I think women are looking for a "nice or good guy", and are usually attracted to that type of man....but sometimes they end up with a chemelion that starts out a nice guy and then changes into a ***** hole.
So, why do women constantly say that they are looking for a "nice guy" when in reality that is not what they want because that is not what they choose?
Assumptions, assumptions... first of all women are like men and will pick a person with whom they have the most physical attraction and chemistry. Sometimes these guys seem nice at first, but a few weeks or months later they turn out to be shetbags. Hence the whining and breaking up.
If a guy is a total deck all the time from the moment he meets a girl, I doubt the girl would want to go out with him. No way. But people are tricky. Even guys who are nice at the core can be quite mean sometimes.
So, why do women constantly say that they are looking for a "nice guy" when in reality that is not what they want because that is not what they choose?
Assumptions, assumptions... first of all women are like men and will pick a person with whom they have the most physical attraction and chemistry. Sometimes these guys seem nice at first, but a few weeks or months later they turn out to be shetbags. Hence the whining and breaking up.
If a guy is a total deck all the time from the moment he meets a girl, I doubt the girl would want to go out with him. No way. But people are tricky. Even guys who are nice at the core can be quite mean sometimes.
That's a valid point but women will chase a man who puts them down or is a d*ck to them. For example, a man can make a woman want to earn his approval by putting her down. For example, a man can walk up to 3 girls at a bar and ignore the one he really is attracted to while opening up conversation with the other two. And when the girl he really wants tries to join the conversation or say something, the man can easily put her down in front of her friends by saying something like "Is she always like that?" And that will generate a few light hearted laughs all the while planting a seed in the woman's head that the man is really after. She is now on a kamikaze mission to seek his approval.
I'm not saying that works all the time but it works every day all across the world.
The only time a woman is going to say "I'm looking for a good guy" and mean it is after she's had a few puppy's and been worn out by a few knuckleheads.
I like my "boyfriend" because 1. His gotta black ponytail 2. He is so kind ... or he acts kind but he is so kind, never said bad word to me Sometimes he is bored because I do not stop stalking his ponytail But he still does not yell me to go to he**
Oh no! Not another "nice guy vs. Bad Boy" thread! This has been done more times than Tommy Lee has been turned-down from playing at a Lilith Fair concert.
But for the record, here's the deal: most women indeed do want a nice guy to settle down with. But they dig Bad Boys for the occasional dirty fling. And then for fantzasizing about after they've settled down in a boring relationship with Mr. Nice Guy.
I agree that most woman want to meet a nice, kind, good man, but they are hard to find. Which is funny, because you hear how there are really good guys just looking for a woman who isn't a reckless party chick and wants to settle down...where are these men when good woman are looking for the good man???!?! LOL JK....It definitely depends on attraction, chemistry, and standards (if anyone really keeps to their standards in the end!). In the end everyone wants to meet someone who is good to them.
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Sometimes he is bored because I do not stop stalking his ponytail 
But he still does not yell me to go to he** 
