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Most girls don't want nice guys. They want dick heads. Plain and simple. They say they want nice guys but they're only lying to themselves. They're also the same ones that have been treated like **** by everyone they've ever dated so essentially they tell themselves "this is all I'm worth". Eventually they rely on drama the dick head in their lives provide to keep them going.
"Nice" is only something women want when they have other things that they think are more important.
They find a good looking guy with money who treats other people like $hit, but that's OK because he is trying to impress HER.
Later, he no longer needs to impress her and she now wants a nice guy. "Why can't he be nice?" Sniff.
Women really want a nice guy when they are going through divorce with him. Nothing worse than facing an a$$hole then.
Face the fact that there are a number of attributes that aren't on the radar in relationship forming today and marriage is on the rocks as a result.
Nice is closely associated with things like basic decency, intelligence, thrift, foresight, consideration and fidelity.
Most women believe that if he loves me, then he will be all that. However, he's "boring", a fraud and putting on airs if he exhibits these attributes if he doesn't need to.
Most girls don't want nice guys. They want dick heads. Plain and simple. They say they want nice guys but they're only lying to themselves. They're also the same ones that have been treated like **** by everyone they've ever dated so essentially they tell themselves "this is all I'm worth". Eventually they rely on drama the dick head in their lives provide to keep them going.
Below is a little something that hits the nail dead on. Say it isn't so all you want but you're only in denial.
I used to pity the guys who pine for the bad girls, but I'm pretty much over that now. If a guy sets himself up to be a chump to women who simply use him, that's pretty sad.
I'm glad I don't live in the black-and-white PUA world. My husband is neither nice guy nor ********, and I am neither drama-seeking bad girl nor ... what does a PUA call a woman who is not a drama-seeking bad girl? I don't think they even exist in the PUA world.
I think most nice guys would rather get used for sex than relationships. From that perspective, why do women complain about the reverse, while not wanting honesty as a form of respect from guys who would rather be honest than be dishonest about what they want, in the mean time.
Would a nice guy be wrong in considering that a woman who does not want honesty as a form of respect toward fellow human beings has an ulterior motive for doing so?
A "Nice guy" and a "quality human being" are two entirely different things. The "nice guy syndrome" usually entails a guy acting like a doormat and permitting the girl to walk all over him and never telling her no and doing whatever she wants. The "bad boy" could also be a quality human being, not all "bad boys" are jerks.
Is that just something women say? If it is, then I expect them to say the same thing in this thread. Women will almost always say that they are looking for a nice or good guy but I think most know women seem to be attracted more to men who mistreat them and put them down. You know, guys who are not nice. So, why do women constantly say that they are looking for a "nice guy" when in reality that is not what they want because that is not what they choose? Do they say that just in case word of it gets back to their Mother or Father?
I don't know. The women I know who say that, mean it.
Just because someone wants a nice guy doesn't mean they will take ANY nice guy. The same goes for the other traits that someone is looking for.
No matter what type of person someone is looking for there has to be some sort of attraction, at least enough to build on.
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