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Old 01-12-2011, 02:02 PM
 
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Heh, I don’t buy the sactimony from a guy who stated he would just lie to get what he wanted. If you really believed what you just said, you would be up front with a woman and tell her your true intentions.
Yep. What he doesn't seem to get is that 99.9% of women like the humpalumpadingdong, too. They like to have headboard-banging gorilla sex. They liked to get plowed like an Iowa cornfield. They liked to have sweaty, animalistic, back-clawing, toe-curling howl-at-the-moon sex. And to not fully divulge one's celibacy vow the first twelve seconds into the date is basically living a lie.
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Old 01-12-2011, 02:04 PM
 
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I can probably count on one hand the number of people with really strong teenage convictions (vegans, republicans, hippies, feminists, etc.) who are still abiding by them 10+ years later. We've all been 18--trust us.
There are a lot of people my age that have sex for fun. Are you saying their views will change in 10 years and they won't have sex at 29?

Of course they're still going to have sex. So why is it so surprising to you that I'm still going to be celibate at 29?
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Old 01-12-2011, 02:04 PM
 
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I can probably count on one hand the number of people with really strong teenage convictions (vegans, republicans, hippies, feminists, etc.) who are still abiding by them 10+ years later. We've all been 18--trust us.
Yep. True that. The average (Or even the way above average) teenager knows butkus about life.

I can't tell you how many high-minded theories I chukked by the time I was 25 because...well....they were so stupid.
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Old 01-12-2011, 02:04 PM
 
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Now I understand why you're so terrified of bizarre scenarios like a woman bribing a doctor to lie about a hysterectomy. It's because you yourself are a liar.
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Old 01-12-2011, 02:08 PM
 
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The thought of lying never occurred to me until this thread. This post:


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Yep. What he doesn't seem to get is that 99.9% of women like the humpalumpadingdong, too. They like to have headboard-banging gorilla sex. They liked to get plowed like an Iowa cornfield. They liked to have sweaty, animalistic, back-clawing, toe-curling howl-at-the-moon sex. And to not fully divulge one's celibacy vow the first twelve seconds into the date is basically living a lie.
just strengthens the idea that I would have to lie to get a relationship
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Old 01-12-2011, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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There are a lot of people my age that have sex for fun. Are you saying their views will change in 10 years and they won't have sex at 29?

Of course they're still going to have sex. So why is it so surprising to you that I'm still going to be celibate at 29?
Because it's highly likely that the first time a woman actually touches you all your big talking will go right out the window.
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Old 01-12-2011, 02:10 PM
 
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The thought of lying never occurred to me until this thread. This post:




just strengthens the idea that I would have to lie to get a relationship
You realize how dumb that is, of course. You're going to lie to get into a relationship, when women expect sex to be part of that relationship. You're one weird, messed-up dude. Do women a favor and stay the heck away from them.
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Old 01-12-2011, 02:10 PM
 
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Yep. True that. The average (Or even the way above average) teenager knows butkus about life.

I can't tell you how many high-minded theories I chukked by the time I was 25 because...well....they were so stupid.
There's another city data poster (TKramar) that's 40 and doesn't have kids nor does he want them. He stuck with his views. Avienne doesn't want kids either and she's in her 40s
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Old 01-12-2011, 02:16 PM
 
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You realize how dumb that is, of course. You're going to lie to get into a relationship, when women expect sex to be part of that relationship. You're one weird, messed-up dude. Do women a favor and stay the heck away from them.
There was a poster that suggested I seek a relationship with a woman in her late 20s or older, because women that age would be more likely to appreciate a relationship where we do other sexual stuff but not actual sex. Like I said, I would be willing to pleasure her sexually in other ways. And I gave the example of a girl at my high school that said she wants to stay celibate forever.

But other than that, no one has given an example of a relationship that would work out. So it's only natural for me to think I would have to lie to get a relationship. I don't want to lie, but if that's my only option...
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Old 01-12-2011, 02:17 PM
 
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There's another city data poster (TKramar) that's 40 and doesn't have kids nor does he want them. He stuck with his views. Avienne doesn't want kids either and she's in her 40s
I'm pretty sure they had sex though.

Not having kids does not equal celibacy.
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