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Old 01-02-2011, 09:50 AM
 
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Wow, so based on your post.... a fat broke bald man living in his parent's basement should keep the beer belly, ditch his membership to Bosley Hair Clinic, and just act like like an arrogant ass?

Yeah, that oughta work.
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Old 01-02-2011, 09:53 AM
 
Location: NoVa
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Your post sucked. A woman feels attraction for $
nope. and the post was a good one.
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Old 01-02-2011, 10:16 AM
 
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Default Women want a "Type"


http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=EDk0M0UnmAw#!

Have a sexualized stereotype.Every girl has a type. It all comes down to having a look of a guy who....
1. She would have sex with.
2. Has already had sex with.
3. Has always wanted to have sex with.

Examples of female sexual archetypes:

Rockers, Artists, Athletes/jocks, Juice Head/guido,Thug/Bad boy/ Jerk, Rich guys...etc etc
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Old 01-02-2011, 10:38 AM
 
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=EDk0M0UnmAw#!

Have a sexualized stereotype.Every girl has a type. It all comes down to having a look of a guy who....
1. She would have sex with.
2. Has already had sex with.
3. Has always wanted to have sex with.

Examples of female sexual archetypes:

Rockers, Artists, Athletes/jocks, Juice Head/guido,Thug/Bad boy/ Jerk, Rich guys...etc etc

That video was absolutely amazing!!! No truer words have ever been spoken.
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Old 01-02-2011, 10:46 AM
 
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The OP is mostly correct with a couple of errors.

Character has nothing to do with anything in the post. I know what the OP is talking about but "Character" is just the wrong word to use. Image might be better.

It is a huge myth that women aren't attracted to looks. They just aren't into the same area of looks that men are. Women are attracted to tall, thin men - the rest is unimportant.

Also, what makes a much bigger difference that how you act is how popular you are. Yes, the old high school mentality is alive and well in the eyes of women. All BS aside, women will judge your value based on your popularity. Google "social exchange theory." That is in essence what the OP is discussing only in greater detail. No woman wants a guy who is a social liability regardless of how confident or alpha he acts. So, the first step is to examine and overcome things that hold you back socially.
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Old 01-02-2011, 10:57 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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LOL ... the girls in that video were not average. If an average guy wants a girl like that, he probably will have to go the fake tan and fur coat route.

It's astonishing how many times we hear the complaint that trashy, shallow skanks don’t want the "nice" guys. You guys are pursuing women you despise and don’t realize how messed up that is.
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Old 01-02-2011, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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It's astonishing how many times we hear the complaint that trashy, shallow skanks don’t want the "nice" guys. You guys are pursuing women you despise and don’t realize how messed up that is.
I usually don't watch these videos, but I did take a look at this one. Well, if that's the type of women our poor "nice" guys want, Satan help them!
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Old 01-02-2011, 11:20 AM
 
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LOL ... the girls in that video were not average. If an average guy wants a girl like that, he probably will have to go the fake tan and fur coat route.

It's astonishing how many times we hear the complaint that trashy, shallow skanks don’t want the "nice" guys. You guys are pursuing women you despise and don’t realize how messed up that is.
I want a good woman that is nice and beautiful. I know she exists-out there-but many people do not believe me.
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Old 01-02-2011, 11:44 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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That was a good video. It touched on the truth - that you have to have a gimmick, even a lame one, to get the gals.

A certain type of gal, anyway...
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Old 01-02-2011, 11:48 AM
 
Location: Denver
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I want a good woman that is nice and beautiful. I know she exists-out there-but many people do not believe me.
Consider yourself blessed if you find 2 out of 3 of those features.

Say 1/2 the people are good. 1/4 are nice. 1/10 are beautiful.

I'd grab my calculator but my cat is laying on me.....as usual.

Whatever .5 x .25 x .1 =

The number isn't very high.

As for me: being good is a matter of interpretation. Beauty will certainly fade and almost always is coupled with a troublesome personality. She has to have sound ethics and not be mean (nag). Healthy and easy to be with. My odds are about as good as yours. Thats my .02
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