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Old 04-28-2011, 09:30 AM
 
Location: USA
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No new information here! Same arguments over and over again. Deny, Deny, Deny.
The facts are:

1) Prostitution has been going on longer than written history and it is never going away.
2) It will go on regardless of what the Morality Police here or else where say.
3) The lowest rates of STDs are in the Western Europeon countries where the sex trade is Legal, common and regulated.
4) Driving prostitution underground has always had detrimental affects on STDs being transmitted.
5) In regulated Brothels in Nevada, there is a lower risk of contracting STD's than in the general population.
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Old 04-28-2011, 03:57 PM
 
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^Too many people in the states are afraid of sex. Its normal to have sex, everyone is doing it or has done it or will. It is no more disgusting having sex with a prostitute than it is to have casual unprotected sex with a person you met at a party.
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Old 04-28-2011, 04:08 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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It is no more disgusting having sex with a prostitute than it is to have casual unprotected sex with a person you met at a party.
But having casual unprotected sex with a stranger is pretty disgusting. It has nothing to do with being a prude or being American. It has to to with being smart and safe.
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Old 04-28-2011, 04:21 PM
 
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But having casual unprotected sex with a stranger is pretty disgusting. It has nothing to do with being a prude or being American. It has to to with being smart and safe.
Was that not what I had said?

You have to be smart when having sex with your bf or gf or some random stranger. The way to do that is to wear a condom that GREATLY reduces the chances of you getting something.

If you want to be smart, well then get married and stay marry. That is one of the few ways of making sure you won't ever get anything. But of course when I say get married I also mean that that means you two will get std tests before doing anything sexual. You can't ask every partner whether they have had an STD test because most would just lie.
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Old 05-02-2011, 10:06 AM
 
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Was that not what I had said?

You have to be smart when having sex with your bf or gf or some random stranger. The way to do that is to wear a condom that GREATLY reduces the chances of you getting something.

If you want to be smart, well then get married and stay marry. That is one of the few ways of making sure you won't ever get anything. But of course when I say get married I also mean that that means you two will get std tests before doing anything sexual. You can't ask every partner whether they have had an STD test because most would just lie.

An STD test as part of a yearly Wellness check would go a long way in stopping the spread of these diseases.
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Old 07-03-2011, 06:00 PM
 
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well, if you frequent "street walkers", the ones that have sex for really cheap, like around $20 - $50, then i'd say the risk is definitely greater because these tend to typically have other issues (homelessness, drug addiction). i think this is the case with a lot of the prostitutes in third world countries, because not only are they more likely to have been forced into the profession but they also don't have as much access to proper health care on a frequent basis, as do the high-end escorts in western nations.

if you're the kind that pays handsomely for the top-notch providers (and there are MANY providers as well as clients, especially in the big cities, like LA and NYC), then you really don't have much to worry about - many of the providers are actually "rated" in the community by johns and are actually much more hygienic and safety conscious than your regular, non-pro girl. in fact, the risk of getting some type of STD is probably greater if you hook up randomly with "regular" girls than if you sleep regularly with high-end escorts or even porn stars - the latter especially since they get tested at least once a month. how many non-pros get tested that often? exactly.
Exactly indeed. You are right on target. Non professional "hookups" are far more dangerous than sex with an escort. All of these internet "hookup" dating sites that guarantee to get you laid within a certain period of time, that's asking for real trouble. Professional girls are clean or nobody will see them. It's their business and they're good at what they do. These casual dating sites, you have no idea who they are, what their motives are, or their hygiene practices. The top notch girls (and there are many of them for sure), are all small business owners and they know that safety (both physical & health) is the most important aspect of their business. They run their business' accordingly.
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Old 07-03-2011, 06:19 PM
 
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I have a few friends that have sex with prostitutes, although the prostitutes in each case are monogamous with them throughout the relationship so their is not much chance of getting a disease. The prostitutes I am referring to are my buddys' wives.

They do, however charge more overall than a woman that a guy might have sex with one night. For example, for the services performed, most of my friends that are married,the prostitutes aka "wives" require a nice house, that he maintain a life insurance policy, a BMW or Audi, vacations, investing for them and put money in her IRA every year, jewelry, financial security, etc, etc.

The benefits of it though are that it is not as likely to result in getting an STD since those prostitutes focus mainly on securing money and resources from one man specifically rather than a numerous amount over a long period of time. I read an article that researchers in the US determined that for men seeking prostitutes of that particular kind should actively pursue them to engage in a mutual, co-psychosis, facade known as "marriage". The study also showed a lower chance of getting STDs within the parameters of that arrangment (the charade, aka marriage) with said women who refer to themselves as "wives" rather than prostitutes.

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Old 07-03-2011, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville, Fl
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I have a few friends that have sex with prostitutes, although the prostitutes in each case are monogamous with them throughout the relationship so their is not much chance of getting a disease. The prostitutes I am referring to are my buddys' wives.

They do, however charge more overall than a woman that a guy might have sex with one night. For example, for the services performed, most of my friends that are married,the prostitutes aka "wives" require a nice house, that he maintain a life insurance policy, a BMW or Audi, vacations, investing for them and put money in her IRA every year, jewelry, financial security, etc, etc.

The benefits of it though are that it is not as likely to result in getting an STD since those prostitutes focus mainly on securing money and resources from one man specifically rather than a numerous amount over a long period of time. I read an article that researchers in the US determined that for men seeking prostitutes of that particular kind should actively pursue them to engage in a mutual, co-psychosis, facade known as "marriage". The study also showed a lower chance of getting STDs within the parameters of that arrangment (the charade, aka marriage) with said women who refer to themselves as "wives" rather than prostitutes.

Oh good grief ... I hope you're kidding
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Old 07-03-2011, 08:00 PM
 
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I have a few friends that have sex with prostitutes, although the prostitutes in each case are monogamous with them throughout the relationship so their is not much chance of getting a disease. The prostitutes I am referring to are my buddys' wives.

They do, however charge more overall than a woman that a guy might have sex with one night. For example, for the services performed, most of my friends that are married,the prostitutes aka "wives" require a nice house, that he maintain a life insurance policy, a BMW or Audi, vacations, investing for them and put money in her IRA every year, jewelry, financial security, etc, etc.

The benefits of it though are that it is not as likely to result in getting an STD since those prostitutes focus mainly on securing money and resources from one man specifically rather than a numerous amount over a long period of time. I read an article that researchers in the US determined that for men seeking prostitutes of that particular kind should actively pursue them to engage in a mutual, co-psychosis, facade known as "marriage". The study also showed a lower chance of getting STDs within the parameters of that arrangment (the charade, aka marriage) with said women who refer to themselves as "wives" rather than prostitutes.
And this is coming from someone who wants to bang porn stars. So, all women are whores, huh? No surprise. At least a lot of guys don't have a fourth of a brain cell like you have.
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Old 07-03-2011, 09:14 PM
 
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The thing in regards to STD's is these days, using a condom simply isn't enough. There are more STD's and with quite a few of them, condoms mean sh*t. Sex outside relationships and hookups are not worth it. Even with protection, you're bound to get something if you do it enough times.
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