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I can relate in some way, because my hubby hardly ever takes the initiative.... or should I say he NEVER takes the initiative. I am the one who has to have him take his pill, tell him to undress.........it's emotionally draining........we sleep in separate rooms due to snoring problems... so in a nutshell, I am in a sexless marriage and that is totally unsatisfying.
Oh, well, I am like you, I have a room mate who has a job, at least!