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Good or not, successful or not, I've always been this way, will continue to be so, and I’m only interested in men on the same wavelength! Cold fish need not apply! Oh, yeah, and I don't care how "wrong" some may think it is!
I hope you don't do it while talking, though. It gets annoying when overused.
It's not "wrong" if someone wants things to move "fast!"....BTW I do hold up two fingers on each side once in awhile to mimic quotes when I'm talking. (But not too often!)...I like to do voice impressions and sing songs in offbeat ways at times too! I guess you could call me a non-conformist.
Some are like that even under 20! In fact, many of the youngsters here sound older than I am! It all comes down to having different personalities.
I may have not been very successful on long-term basis and I may be alone now (and very well could be alone from now on), but at least I've lived some. Others will die without having lived at all...
I've been married 3 times and I had tons of relationships earlier in life. (Before I met my last husband.) I'm not saying that we should all become nuns and priests and take a lifelong vow of celibacy!...I just don't want to be pushed into a "fast-track" type of relationship if I would rather take things slow with someone.
Some people come on like "gangbusters" when they meet someone new...They feel an "instant click" and "fall in love!" Their new relationship consumes their whole life! And they "feel hurt" and get upset if the "object of their affection" doesn't drop everything and shower them with non-stop attention too!...I used to rush right into relationships when I was younger but I don't feel this way anymore. I get nervous if someone comes on "too strong" and "too fast" today. How do you feel about it? Thanks!
Yes, it can be overwhelming when someone comes on too strong right from the get-go. It intimidates me, depending on who's coming on to me. However, if it's someone I'm already very interested in, then the chemistry can heat up pretty quickly from my side of the equation, too!
I just don't want to be pushed into a "fast-track" type of relationship if I would rather take things slow with someone.
Hey, whatever floats your boat... Usually similar people (in that respect) find each other anyway or one checks out of the game rather quickly if the initial assessment has been wrong and that's not the case.
Yes, it can be overwhelming when someone comes on too strong right from the get-go. It intimidates me, depending on who's coming on to me. However, if it's someone I'm already very interested in, then the chemistry can heat up pretty quickly from my side of the equation, too!
I agree. It's a whole "other ballgame" when there's a mutual attraction right off the bat...What I'm talking about is different. One person tries to make "more" out of the relationship. And the other person ends up feeling "spooked" and "smothered" and "roped and tied!" YUK!
It could be yet another symptom of the fast living that's so prevalent in this country these days - instant gratification, 24/7 communications, 600-HP Cadillacs ...
Quoted for truth.
I think it's about "instant gratification" too! As in: "I want what I want right now and I shouldn't have to wait! How dare you make me wait!" It's not a very good way to start a new relationship! It's like throwing meat and vegetables into a pot and calling it "stew" before it's even cooked.
I too get leery of those that attach themselves very quickly...
While for some this works if the feeling is not mutual it can be creepy..
It tends to make one think if this person feels this way about everyone they encounter...
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It all comes down to having different personalities.
