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Old 09-25-2011, 07:52 PM
 
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You're only supposed to be around for the benefits, not the friendship.
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Old 09-26-2011, 05:23 AM
 
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"Friends with Benefits" means you are going out with a cheap guy who wants no commitment, he thinks he can call at 11pm, after hanging with his friends at the bar all night and have a bootie call. I call it a woman who has low self esteem and is being exploited by her own lack of self efficacy. It is not FWB, it is getting emotionally raped and abused, by your own consent.

Send any guy who wants "FWB" to the door. Have some self respect.
Good analysis
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Old 09-26-2011, 07:50 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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"Friends with Benefits" means you are going out with a cheap guy who wants no commitment, he thinks he can call at 11pm, after hanging with his friends at the bar all night and have a bootie call. I call it a woman who has low self esteem and is being exploited by her own lack of self efficacy. It is not FWB, it is getting emotionally raped and abused, by your own consent.

Send any guy who wants "FWB" to the door. Have some self respect.
You do realize that there are women who prefer these sort of arrangements. They aren't cheapening themselves if they are getting some level of fulfillment out of the FWB relationship.
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Old 09-26-2011, 08:13 AM
 
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I agree; its not something I do either, but the notion has crossed my mind how often those relationships could easily probably turn into something more....
"...it's not something I do either, buuuuutttt the notion has crossed my mind...ahhhh ummmmm....(Better write more to explain) ummmm...how often those relationships could easily .... ummm ... probably turn into something more..."

Hilarious and yet naughty.

You probably lost out on some action this New Years from your previous post to Himan to this post stating you don't do this either.
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Old 09-26-2011, 08:18 AM
 
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"...it's not something I do either, buuuuutttt the notion has crossed my mind...ahhhh ummmmm....(Better write more to explain) ummmm...how often those relationships could easily .... ummm ... probably turn into something more..."

Hilarious and yet naughty.

You probably lost out on some action this New Years from your previous post to Himan to this post stating you don't do this either.
LOL, you're an expert at reading between the lines, ay?? It is amusing, I suppose, & slightly naughty

Are you kidding- write more to explain...I could write a novel.....btw I'm not missing out on anything
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Old 09-26-2011, 08:29 AM
 
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LOL, you're an expert at reading between the lines, ay?? It is amusing, I suppose, & slightly naughty

Are you kidding- write more to explain...I could write a novel.....btw I'm not missing out on anything


I knew it! I knew it! I knew it!!! LOL!
Naughty, Naughty... AND Nau to the T!!

If you are writing a novel you'd better skip that chapter.
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Old 09-26-2011, 08:39 AM
 
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I knew it! I knew it! I knew it!!! LOL!
Naughty, Naughty... AND Nau to the T!!

If you are writing a novel you'd better skip that chapter.
LOL, skip that chapter? The whole novel....would have some juicy tidbits
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Old 09-26-2011, 08:58 AM
 
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LOL, skip that chapter? The whole novel....would have some juicy tidbits
Hahaha! Hardcover? LOL! Oh...stop it. See you makin me bad too.

I came across you telling someone else in a thread to write a book after talking about some naughty encounters. You one of those ladies with romance novels loading up the bookcase?

Nutn wrong with that.
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Old 09-26-2011, 09:07 AM
 
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Hahaha! Hardcover? LOL! Oh...stop it. See you makin me bad too.

I came across you telling someone else in a thread to write a book after talking about some naughty encounters. You one of those ladies with romance novels loading up the bookcase?

Nutn wrong with that.
Never read them, LOL Don't have to
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Old 09-26-2011, 12:41 PM
 
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Never read them, LOL Don't have to
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