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First, sorry for the crudely titled thread, but that's pretty much the sum of it.
I recently confessed to a guy that I had feelings for him and he said he felt similarly but I just got the feeling his feelings weren't as strong as mine. We ended up hanging out a few days later where I slept over. We cuddled and his manhood was at full attention, but when I went to kiss him, he seemed not that into it. Then, when I sorta tried to touch him "down there", he gently but firmly removed my hand.
WHAT.THE.HELL. ???
anyone have any ideas what this is about? Do you think he just feels sorry for me and isn't that into me hence the cuddling but dispassionate kissing? If he's not into me, why did he have a massive hard-on? We've fooled around in the past w no issues, so I don't get what the deal is now.
Dude probably had a herpes breakout and didnt want you to see it.
There is no way he feels sorry for you. Men do not get hard-ons because they feel sorry for someone. Do you really think they can just tell their "boy" to rise so that the young lady doesn't suspect he isn't into her? Come on. There's no way.
So there are several possibilities here that I would consider.
1. He had sex with someone earlier and hadn't showered.
2. He had a severe case of herpes and was sparing you the horror.
3. He was getting treated for some other STD.
4. He fell in love with you and now doesn't want you using him.
5. He is playing mind games and is torturing you sexually so you will want him more later.
Looks like it's time to open up the odds table:
HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU 3:1 (Bet $1 to win $3)
STRONG FEELINGS AND WANTS TO TAKE IT SLOW 4:1
HAS A GIRLFRIEND ON THE D/L 4:1
MIND GAMES TO MAKE HIMSELF MORE DESIRABLE 5:1
PREMATURE EVACUATION 5:1
SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE SAME DAY 6:1
HERPES OR OTHER STD 8:1
Get your bets in NOW. The table is opening late for this one so don't delay. OP, ask your guy what the deal is and post his answer at 5pm today. Nuttin' but MONEY... if you're gonna sin... WIN! Lots of good plays here so don't miss out.
First, sorry for the crudely titled thread, but that's pretty much the sum of it.
I recently confessed to a guy that I had feelings for him and he said he felt similarly but I just got the feeling his feelings weren't as strong as mine. We ended up hanging out a few days later where I slept over. We cuddled and his manhood was at full attention, but when I went to kiss him, he seemed not that into it. Then, when I sorta tried to touch him "down there", he gently but firmly removed my hand.
WHAT.THE.HELL. ???
anyone have any ideas what this is about? Do you think he just feels sorry for me and isn't that into me hence the cuddling but dispassionate kissing? If he's not into me, why did he have a massive hard-on? We've fooled around in the past w no issues, so I don't get what the deal is now.
Girl he is a down low brother. Watch out ladies, they are everywhere!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes. Sorry, OP. He is thinking about someone else who is not in the room, who may or may not be female.
Some of them can even get into it with you, thinking about someone else (may or may not be opposite sex). It is hard to suss these ones out, if you are turned on by him and want to go for it, but just take it from me, if you are into him, and he appears turned on but just not fully in the room, you are in for a world of hurt, long or short term.
There are many, many women out there who marry and have kids with guys, as Ohbaby said here, who are thinking about someone else (down low = same sex attraction) while having sex with you.
He has someone else and is squirting the line between faithful and not.
See it all the time with the "straights" who are extremely aroused but are too scared to cross that line and actually do something with another man.
At any rate a little more alone time and he'll be sexing you, or if things don't work out with this other person (which it probably won't since he's hanging out with you) he'll be sexing you.
Last edited by recuerdeme; 10-10-2011 at 09:53 AM..
He has someone else and is squirting the line between faithful and not.
If this guy was cheating, he would have done the deed and kicked her to the curve by now.
This guy is shy and wants to take it slow, scared of STDs and kids, or is conflicted about being straight...possible switch hitter.
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