Does bisexuality exist? (guy, family, attraction, personal)

[virgode]

Originally Posted by VTHokieFan

How would you know?

Do you ever read or just post a lot?

[VTHokieFan]

Originally Posted by virgode

Do you ever read or just post a lot?

I read this "Men who consider themselves bisexual haven't come to terms with their sexuality. Men are either gay or straight."

And then responded to that one sentence and asked the question: "How would you know?"

Do you care to respond or do you just post here because you enjoy attempting to "one-up" other posters?

Thanks.

[LS Jaun]

Originally Posted by noela

well, I'm not... But, obviously, lesbian women have no interest in you or any other man hitting on them...

Its a good thing your there to straighten me out then. Ive been wondering why I keep getting slapped in the face

[Trimac20]

Originally Posted by DrummerBoy

You really think so?

Hmm...my experiences have been pretty much the opposite. Maybe it's because I've spent so much time in the music biz, which tends to attract more, shall we say, open-minded people; But from what I've seen it seems like about one-quarter or so of all women out there are only about three or four wine coolers away from slipping under the sheets for some touchy-feely with that "special" gf.

Finch from Just Shoot Me said that girls are just a few beers away from a girl-on-girl experience, or something to that effect. He must be right cos he pulled like a magnet in that show .

[Trimac20]

Originally Posted by VTHokieFan

I read this "Men who consider themselves bisexual haven't come to terms with their sexuality. Men are either gay or straight."

And then responded to that one sentence and asked the question: "How would you know?"

Do you care to respond or do you just post here because you enjoy attempting to "one-up" other posters?

Thanks.

I agree you asked a valid question.

[Trimac20]

Originally Posted by virgode

You're probably right, but the study I read was about men.

Apparently according to one study I read, women are turned on by bonobo sex, so they must be attracted to apes too.

In that case I'm glad my gender isn't naturally turned on by bestiality.

Studies always have a bias. I don't put much stock in those 'studies' at all.

[Ali1234]

Originally Posted by noela

well, I'm not... But, obviously, lesbian women have no interest in you or any other man hitting on them...

No.. in fact we don't like it. There has been very very few men that have hit on me that I have actually been flattered by, and that is only because they were completely sincere in their compliments.

[Rei_h]

Yes.

Will they live their life time being that way? No.

[NotQuiteNative]

Most "bisexuals" I've met or dated hung their hats on one or two experiences that they enjoyed. I don't think I've met anyone over the age of 25 or so who was wide open to either gender or kept one of each ready at all times. And even in the age of youthful experimentation, there will be only tendencies to try things with same-sex partner without forming a dedication to a bi lifestyle.

My mom and sister are both pretty open with finding women attractive, but I don't think my sister's done much more than experiment. My mom is pretty much a lesbian in her old age--not that I think she gets it on much anymore.

I don't like that so much is made of bisexuality as a solid status. I've seen enough to know that most of us are more-or-less in one camp and occasionally are at least tempted to check out the other. Not a big deal.

[West of Encino]

Approximately 85% of the female population. The male population, probably less than 5%.