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I read the first few lines of your thread and when I got to the part I bolded I stopped reading and made up my mind about what kind of person you are. All I can say is I don't blame any man round you for looking at someone else. I've seen people in my life that I thought were pathetic, and I won't say more.
You deny the "eye screw". I'm pretty sure most women have experienced the public eye screw at various times in our lives. Typically experienced while picking up a few household items at the local hardware chain store on a Saturday or even picking up the kids from soccer practice.
You say that but since you don't have to worry about it for real, much less for real on an every single day kind of basis, how do you know for sure?
What makes you think I don't know whether she's out messing around or not?
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It's very easy to think we're emotionally evolved, very generous and would do the right thing in a reverse situation in which we can be 98% sure we'll never find ourselves. Not picking on you, Lucario. Just pointing out that you don't have to put your money where your mouth is on your statement so it's very easy to imagine yourself the expansive and generous one in a role reversal.
I just don't understand what you're saying. She looks all the time. Watching football games, watching other things on TV, in the mall, etc. Like I said, I don't care. Why would I care? I look all the time.
Exactly. If his wife was dreaming of bedding every 20 something hunk, instead of think of his needs he would be a very unhappy man.
I already am......but not because she's thinking about bedding every 20something hunk. For all I know, she IS thinking about it. I don't give a damn, as long as she's not acting it out. She acts it out, well, Houston, we've got a problem.
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Because as pretty as you might be, you get bored looking at the same thing.
As long as its looking, dont sweat it.
Im female, soon to be married, and *I* look too. So does he. Hell, Ive even told him that if I ever saw Taylor Lautner in person, Id leave him for about 2 hours or so...He's said the same thing about Jessica Biel....It doesnt matter. He's coming home with me and we both know it.
You have some issues you need to get over.
Refreshing honestly, I like it .
But yes, steak is great, but imagine eating it everyday for the rest of your life? I think many men and women in this day and age, used to having a variety of partners, want to sup on the buffet of potential partners. Choice kind of breeds a mindset of priviledge. I admit, for instance, the idea of being with girls from different nationalities seems appealing, just to 'try them out'. It's not something I HAVE to do, I mean I certainly could settle down with one woman, but I'm not sure if I'd feel I was missing out, especially if you've never had anyone before her. Ultimately I'm a romantic and would rather find love anyway though haha.
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Okay. Yes, we look too. I have to admit that I have leered at men...when they are out running with nothing but skimpy shorts on. It's hard to not look. But I only ogle for a second or two then I look away. I have never had the urge to follow a guy around so I can keep looking at him.
I think there's a big difference between men and women about what they think when they look and maybe this is why women feel more insecure when their men do it. I have heard many guys say and have also read here on C-D that when they see an attractive woman, they imagine having sex with her right there and then. Maybe I am different from other women. When I see a handsome man, I admire his good-looking features, dream for a second about him being my boyfriend or husband and wonder if he's single. I don't imagine him and me in a porno.
If men knew that every time their women stared at other men, they were imagining having sex with them, they would feel insecure too.
I sometimes imagine having sex with a woman, but probably more often, especially if she's not wearing skimpy clothes, it's more a romantic thing. Especially when I notice women who are just pretty/beautiful as opposed to sexy.
Anyone with eyesight is technically a "visual" creature
What I was referring to is the fact that men are turned on by what they see while women are turned on by what they HEAR.
I understood what you meant. Women are just as turned on by what they see as well. You don't hear a guy is good looking from across the room though. Looks are the first thing that we ALL notice after that we decide if we like the person inside or not.
Man, what a long drawn out post asking the obvious. Who doesn't check out other attractive people??
I haven't actually caught my husband doing it but I can't say it would bother me much. He married me, loves me and comes home with me. But I do my fair share of looking and he's aware of men I find attractive (on TV, in movies etc.) We're human, sexuality is there. Its life. We don't cry about it.
If it bothers you that much, talk to him. Otherwise, I don't see the issue.
because no matter how you cut it, Men LOVE women...especially attractive ones, it's not odd, b/c I also find myself intreged when I see a beautiful women, thinking to myself, "God, is SHE lucky"...LOL but haven't you ever been out and saw a beautiful woman and couldn't help but look at her, admiring her beauty? OMG, I hope so!
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It's hard to not look. But I only ogle for a second or two then I look away. I have never had the urge to follow a guy around so I can keep looking at him. 
