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Old 01-12-2012, 05:57 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I really felt like Wednesday was the cut off if I was going to hear from him, but I guess I should've waited until Friday to post this thread...
Not really. Friday would've been the day to tell him your weekend is all planned-out, even if you have only cleaning, laundry, and grooming lined-up (it's a plan nevertheless!). Actually, so is today, if you ask me, so we're on the same page on this one.

I'm serious... Even games aside, most people have some idea what they'll be doing by this time.
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Old 01-12-2012, 06:10 PM
 
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Not really. Friday would've been the day to tell him your weekend is all planned-out, even if you have only cleaning, laundry, and grooming lined-up (it's a plan nevertheless!). Actually, so is today, if you ask me, so we're on the same page on this one.

I'm serious... Even games aside, most people have some idea what they'll be doing by this time.
Are you saying you wouldn't go out with him this weekend on principle since he asked late even if you didn't have plans?
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Old 01-12-2012, 06:28 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Are you saying you wouldn't go out with him this weekend on principle since he asked late even if you didn't have plans?
Yes. I find it disrespectful.
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Old 01-12-2012, 06:31 PM
 
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Are you saying you wouldn't go out with him this weekend on principle since he asked late even if you didn't have plans?
I would let it slide once. If he makes a habit of it, that probably means you are the back up date.
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Old 01-12-2012, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I almost wanted to open a new thread when this girl asked me why I am "always" giving her a peck on the cheek and nowhere else. But I pretty much figured you sistahs will put a road roller on me. Seeing the responses here, I'm glad I didn't.
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Old 01-12-2012, 07:18 PM
 
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Yes. I find it disrespectful.
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I would let it slide once. If he makes a habit of it, that probably means you are the back up date.
Sounds reasonable.
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Old 01-12-2012, 09:55 PM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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Stay on topic, kids! Re-read the OP if necessary.
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Old 01-12-2012, 11:46 PM
 
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Is there a rule on how many days should pass?
Exactly! There is no rule, unless she wants there to be a rule.

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Not really. Friday would've been the day to tell him your weekend is all planned-out, even if you have only cleaning, laundry, and grooming lined-up (it's a plan nevertheless!)..

Exactly. By Friday it's too late.

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Are you saying you wouldn't go out with him this weekend on principle since he asked late even if you didn't have plans?
Yeah.

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I almost wanted to open a new thread when this girl asked me why I am "always" giving her a peck on the cheek and nowhere else. But I pretty much figured you sistahs will put a road roller on me. Seeing the responses here, I'm glad I didn't.
She wants you to give her kisses everywhere. Next!
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Old 01-13-2012, 12:16 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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I'm with dewdrop here. If you liked him enough to care, then why not send him a short follow-up message, just something like "what's up" or "how's going". But it seems like a 2nd date is in order? Let us know how it goes
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Old 01-13-2012, 09:35 AM
 
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I'm with dewdrop here. If you liked him enough to care, then why not send him a short follow-up message, just something like "what's up" or "how's going". But it seems like a 2nd date is in order? Let us know how it goes
That's right. Why just leave it all to the guy? I would understand if she was not interested in him but she is. All these rules .
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