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The last time I heard from her was Saturday and was a simple yes. It has gone south for some reason and I wish I new why.
Sorry to hear what has happened to you but she used you for her own fun. You want to date seriously & she apparently wanted a distraction & fun while she sorted out her feelings for one of the exs. Now that she has those feelings worked out she's done with you. Forget about her bro. It seems like you have avoided a huge problem.
So I have been seeing a very nice woman over the past month. 4-5 dates, talk on the phone all the time and text.
Well we went to lunch last Friday and all was good. We had big plans for Saturday as she is going on a biz. trip for the whole week. Anyway she cancelled on me, Saturday morning said that one of her GF's needed her. She was very apologetic in the text, and I even asked her if we were fine and she stated yes. That has been the last I have heard from her.
Now her ex husband is heavily involved in her life. Very controlling. She is also very involved with her ex boyfriend, they broke up last October but have remained friends. He is actually flying out his daughter and her kids this weekend to go skiing. She didn't want her kids to fly alone.
I am just stumped. I have texted her a few times and have called her and haven't gotten any response since Saturday. I know that she is a very busy woman, but this behavior is just odd. I sent one last "good morning" text to her this morning and got nothing. She usually calls me on the phone.
What do you think is going on? Thanks.
Too many ex's in the picture. I see no reason for my kids to still be hanging out with an ex-bf. Run and run fast....like it's going out of style.
Too many ex's in the picture. I see no reason for my kids to still be hanging out with an ex-bf. Run and run fast....like it's going out of style.
This. That statement about the ex boyfriend flying the kids out struck me as strange for an ex boyfriend to be doing that. And for her to go along with itv& then fly out with them. Too much weirdness going on with her & the exs.
Struck me as weird and her GF's think she is nuts to. Anyway, I appreciate it all!! There is nothing I can do anyway, just need to let it go and move on. If she contacts me great if not oh well, It's her not me.
Struck me as weird and her GF's think she is nuts to. Anyway, I appreciate it all!! There is nothing I can do anyway, just need to let it go and move on. If she contacts me great if not oh well, It's her not me.
There's nothing great about her contacting you, now that we have established all these red flags. Even her GF thinks she's nuts. Move on.
Oh God, so now women are dissapearing as well. There must be something in the air....
I'd think she is not interested, sorry OP. A text does not take that much time or effort when you want to communicate with someone. She might still have feelings for her ex.
I think so too. Between the exes, And this I think it's better to cut your losses. A female version of "the fade." Sorry man. Even the president can find a moment to say a quick hello.
Maybe people are being snatched from their beds by aliens? In addition to the forum I have heard this from people I know. Nah...I think it's the roulette game of life called dating.
Struck me as weird and her GF's think she is nuts to. Anyway, I appreciate it all!! There is nothing I can do anyway, just need to let it go and move on. If she contacts me great if not oh well, It's her not me.
Good for you!
Glad we could help
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