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At what point do I just flat out and text her, what is going on? I just don't like to not know....
I thought you were going to wait for her to text you? If I were in your situation, I would just move on. There are a lot of women out there with fewer red flags.
She's really not free to take on a new relationship - there is too much going on in her life for there to be room for you. Oh sure, she wants to date and have some fun, but you two are in completely different places emotionally.
If it would make you feel any better - give it a few days to a week then call to ask her out again. If you don't reach her and she doesn't respond back, you'll know she's trying to let you down gently.
We discussed it and was a prerequisite for sex, but the relationship was still revolving and she stated that she would not have sex until we were exclusive. She would tell me if/when that happens and it was never brought up. Meaning we were still dating around and haven't made any official boyfriend/girlfriend agreement.
So chances are she either doesn't take this relationship with you serious as you do. Or she views you not getting tested as telling her you aren't that into her. Either which way i think there is a good chance you should move on.
So chances are she either doesn't take this relationship with you serious as you do. Or she views you not getting tested as telling her you aren't that into her. Either which way i think there is a good chance you should move on.
Exactly.
And geez, it's only been ONE month of dating - that's no time at all and yet he seems to have gotten so wrapped up in her, while she seems to have decided he's not as interesting as the ex and her ex-boyfriend.
See, people tell on themselves by the words and actions they choose. I wish he would accept that and let this go, for his own sake.
So chances are she either doesn't take this relationship with you serious as you do. Or she views you not getting tested as telling her you aren't that into her. Either which way i think there is a good chance you should move on.
Yeah, move on. It sounds so tiring and there's plenty of fish in the sea!
I wonder if she's having her Ex boyfriend and Ex Husband re-test considering at least one of them is probably still having sex with her
At what point do I just say to heck with her I'm find someone else...screw it, I'm done with her! I'm going to find someone who isn't still hung up on her ex-boy friend and ex-husband. Superbowl Sunday is this weekend I'm calling up the boys and headed to Hooters...naw, we're going to Twin Peaks...less clothing!
Thanks again everyone. Still no text/call but she did post on my FB. So I've stayed true to my word and haven't done anything. Figure I'll reach out late next week.
If I had a woman who went silent on me I WOULD THANK MY LUCKY STARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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