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Old 01-30-2012, 02:46 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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I am joining the priesthood.

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Old 01-30-2012, 04:55 PM
 
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Maybe something turned her off? Aside from the weird issues she has, there was obviously something that changed in her regard towards you.

Even if she contacts you again, you should probably just wish her well. You might be doing both of you a favor.
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Old 01-30-2012, 05:14 PM
 
Location: USA
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There's nothing great about her contacting you, now that we have established all these red flags. Even her GF thinks she's nuts. Move on.
Right on! Follow up with here if you want to be a "Future Ex". Sounds like she has something going for her if the exes are flocking around her
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Old 01-30-2012, 06:23 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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What do you think is going on? Thanks.
As the others said, whatever is going on, you want no part of it.
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Old 01-30-2012, 06:35 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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She might be keeping the exes around for security. It can feel overwhelming to some women to be alone. It's easier to keep a friendly ex than to cut all ties to the past. Yes, it's possible.

Like you said, let her make the next move. Other than not texting back, she might not be a terrible person. Just let things play themselves out and wait and see.
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Old 01-31-2012, 12:28 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Her ex husband and ex bf are still heavily involved in her life. Maybe she realized getting into something new with you would not be such a good idea.
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Old 01-31-2012, 07:55 AM
 
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That's what I am thinking. Still no communication at all from her. Just to go from talking/texting all the time to nothing, just blows my mind.
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Old 01-31-2012, 07:58 AM
 
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That's what I am thinking. Still no communication at all from her. Just to go from talking/texting all the time to nothing, just blows my mind.


She probably was never single. Either a bored housewife, playing while her husband was away, or just using you to pass time while her and a boyfriend were on a break.
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Old 01-31-2012, 08:03 AM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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She obviously still has a relationship with her "X" husband...and this buisness about "controling" is tripe! In my life...I do not live with my wife - but her and I are still a couple - she knows it - others know it - but unlike you - YOU don't know it - beware of modern terms like "controlling" - it is usuually aspoused by the controler - If anyone is a controler it is this woman - who seems to control her former husband and now you.
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Old 01-31-2012, 08:04 AM
 
Location: North America
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That's what I am thinking. Still no communication at all from her. Just to go from talking/texting all the time to nothing, just blows my mind.
Chances are while she likes you she is probably reconnecting with her ex,or she just isn't as into you as you think she was.Nobody is so busy that they can't spare a few minutes a day to text people back. There is a good saying that my mom says, "you make time for people that are important to you". When people fail to make any time then that tells you where you rank.
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