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Sorry rabbit but I have to disagree with regarding the tests you mentioned. Some women do think this way but the vast majority do not. To prove my point I had many around me from my late twenties through my thirties and I was 165 pounds and 5 foot 6. You might say chubby. Now I am roughly 135 pounds still 5 foot 6 and 43 y/o. I have twentysomethings flirting with me. like I said the vast majority of women do not test so shallowly however you are be ok ng tested.
....that they will have more cumulative orgasms in their lives by themselves than they ever will with a girl/woman?
I feel that way sometimes & it just really, really weighs my heart down with sadness. It's less of a problem for many other guys, I guess, but it's especially a problem for me, since I'm almost 25 & I've never had a girlfriend.
Does anyone ever feel this way? Or have you ever felt that way? I guess the best solution is to actually get a girlfriend/wife/whatever.
Sigh. I wish this part of life was easier than it is.
I think that's NORMAL. Men masturbate more than women to start with, and even in most, maybe 2/3 of relationships, the man has a higher sex drive than many woman, so he's bound to "rub one out" every once in a while.
For ford's sake, do you read some of the posts on this board about the ridiculous standards some men have for women.
Why are you presenting it as a one-sided thing.
How does such a great percentage of the world manage to find relationships and so many of the young men on CD (usually with negative attitude problems) manage to be unable to do the same?
Do you think that there might be a correlation?
None of those posts have come from me so I cannot relate. I do not have 'ridiculous standards' for women, unless wanting them to be heavier than the average runway model, having a brain and decent personality, and good hygiene are 'ridiculous'. I couldn't care less about height, eye color, hair color, etc. although tattooes and smoking are definite turnoffs.
In short, my standards are not 'ridiculous' and I can tell you strictly from experience that I have been rejected for much more silly reasons.
None of those posts have come from me so I cannot relate. I do not have 'ridiculous standards' for women, unless wanting them to be heavier than the average runway model, having a brain and decent personality, and good hygiene are 'ridiculous'. I couldn't care less about height, eye color, hair color, etc. although tattooes and smoking are definite turnoffs.
In short, my standards are not 'ridiculous' and I can tell you strictly from experience that I have been rejected for much more silly reasons.
Listen Rabbit...tricks are for kids.
I just wanted to say that...Ummm
What advice I can give you is that women are not necessarily interested in having a knockout 10 kindof guy. They would like that but they are more interested in the inner guy. So...with that...you have to bring out the attractive inner qualities you possess inside.
Charming, considerate, thoughtful, funny, spontanious, fun. Those are the qualities women are after.
Now... if you are less than a 5 on the 1-10 scale then you will need backup. Most often you will get shot down if you are alone. You need a friend. Preferrably a 7 or 8 to help you out. He's just there as a companion.
See, women also are social. When they see you acting alone it's kinda like a signal saying you are a loser, loner type. Creepy stalker. You need a couple friends with you to show you are social. That's why you always see women with a few friends. Hardly ever alone in any given situation. Even using the bathroom you will see two or more together.
Oh and about your uh..umm the self pleasuring part of your problem you have to curve that or you'll shoot your eye out.
TO the Op, I think you're making it harder than it is. Don't worry so much about the outward appearance and try to look at the person for their inner qualities, kindness, friendliness, happiness. I'm married, but I go to the grocery and see all kinds of nice friendly young ladies. They're not hitting on me. I'm old enough to be their grandfather. They're just being friendly. Be friendly back, comment that their hair looks nice or you like their shirt or an item of jewelry they're wearing. if you draw some interest, they'll go out of their way to be friendly when you go in that store. Then you have their opening to ask to meet them for a coffee or whatever. If you get shot down, so what, no loss, try someone else.
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....that they will have more cumulative orgasms in their lives by themselves than they ever will with a girl/woman?
I feel that way sometimes & it just really, really weighs my heart down with sadness. It's less of a problem for many other guys, I guess, but it's especially a problem for me, since I'm almost 25 & I've never had a girlfriend.
Does anyone ever feel this way? Or have you ever felt that way? I guess the best solution is to actually get a girlfriend/wife/whatever.
Sigh. I wish this part of life was easier than it is.
As long as it's all about having orgasms, all you really need is this:
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TO the Op, I think you're making it harder than it is. Don't worry so much about the outward appearance and try to look at the person for their inner qualities, kindness, friendliness, happiness. I'm married, but I go to the grocery and see all kinds of nice friendly young ladies. They're not hitting on me. I'm old enough to be their grandfather. They're just being friendly. Be friendly back, comment that their hair looks nice or you like their shirt or an item of jewelry they're wearing. if you draw some interest, they'll go out of their way to be friendly when you go in that store. Then you have their opening to ask to meet them for a coffee or whatever. If you get shot down, so what, no loss, try someone else.
I think you have too much time on your hands, dear. Pun wasn't even intended at first.
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