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why would you think its a joke? I'm not the only person on Planet Earth that has to deal with bf's friends with xgf's and Mistresses.......
Most people have a past of some sort.
But when a person has to keep flaunting that past in the face of their present partner, something is NOT right.
IF he "really, really" wanted to get serious with you, he would not accept all these ex's being so sexually suggestive toward him. He would take the time to either set them straight and warn them to stop, or he'd cut them off altogether.
A man who is really serious about a woman does not let other women get away with this kind of disrespect.
Listen to your gut on this one - he's not really serious.
The better question to be asking yourself it this - why do I find a man with no integrity attractive in the first place?
Multiple ex-mistresses? Apparently he has a problem being faithful, which is extremely disrespectful to whoever he is married to. Don't expect his behavior to change should you decide to get "serious". Marriage is pretty "serious" and it didn't change how he treats women. Have more respect for yourself and let him go. You deserve better.
But when a person has to keep flaunting that past in the face of their present partner, something is NOT right.
IF he "really, really" wanted to get serious with you, he would not accept all these ex's being so sexually suggestive toward him. He would take the time to either set them straight and warn them to stop, or he'd cut them off altogether.
A man who is really serious about a woman does not let other women get away with this kind of disrespect.
Listen to your gut on this one - he's not really serious.
The better question to be asking yourself it this - why do I find a man with no integrity attractive in the first place?
thank you. Yeah i feel like I am on the side and they are front row center.
like today he said to me OHhh just so you know my x - mistress who now lives in canada called me an she was looking for some leads for work in LA where my brother meaning his brother is........ I am like okayyyyy and he ends dont get jealous AGAIN ......... I felt like telling him to F OFF but i just kept quiet.
like today he said to me OHhh just so you know my x - mistress who now lives in canada called me an she was looking for some leads for work in LA where my brother meaning his brother is........ I am like okayyyyy and he ends dont get jealous AGAIN ......... I felt like telling him to F OFF but i just kept quiet.
He's a jerk. I'd really like to use more harsh words, but I don't want a warning again, but he truly is GARBAGE.
Do you live with him? Please tell me you have your own place?
If not, then can you move in with family or a friend temporarily?
Or do you plan on leaving AT ALL and is this some type of "venting" post?
Let me know if it is a vent post, so I can stop posting in here. Thanks.
The fact he told you to "toughen up" about this is a huge red flag.
The problem is not yours, it's his. Like I said, he's proven he has no integrity.
If it were me, I'd draw a line in the sand. You'll find out very quickly just how serious he really is.
If he refuses to put your feelings ahead of all the ex's in his life then walk. No, run.
You are right. Except, the problem IS her's. Because she is playing his game. Most self respecting women would not tolerate this. She play "he said, I said" for while yet, unfortunately.
I'll never understand the concept of keeping serious friendships with exes (especially ones who are sexually suggestive). It's asking for trouble and shows a lack of respect for his/her partner. I would suspect he is keeping his options open in case things don't work out.
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