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As a father of 3 daughters let me say that I think you should stop dating ANYONE until you gain some self respect. Then you should work on your reasoning skills. You actually think a man who showed such disrespect for his wife is all of a sudden going to show respect for you? You do realize dont you, that just because a skunk is white/black instead of black/white, HE"S STILL A SKUNK???
Reminds me of a mantra I live by....If someone can do something with you, they most certainly can do it to you.
After reading through all this, everyone keeps talking about the guy like he is some sort of disease. BUT
My take is that he has extreme insecurities. His list of sexual partners appears to me to be a trophy case of conquests. His ego is fed by your jealousies. I am sure he is extremely charming, good looking, and fun to be around. And he might actually be ready to grow up and commit.
You haven't commented (that I recall) but does he have other female friends on his social networks that aren't or weren't booty calls?
It seems apparent to me that you have a lot of growing up to do as well. You need to develop that confidence that says former relationships are irrelevant.
Maybe you could consider becoming bisexual so you could join him when he wants a little on the side. That way he doesn't sneak around and end up coming home to you......you don't sneak and you come home together. There are several ways of handling it, from dropping him, to ignoring them, to ignore the new ones, to sharing them all. Its up to you, but I doubt he will quit other women........he needs the reassurance that he is desired by all.......and I know men in their 60's that are the same way.
GF'S are gals he dated when he was not married Mistresses are women he dated and had a ffairs with when he was married.
There's your answer right there!! Run far far away from this loser!!! His past actions speak louder than his words. There is no way that he could ever be a faithful bf to you. Don't be stupid. Cut this guy completely out of your life!!!
It seems apparent to me that you have a lot of growing up to do as well. You need to develop that confidence that says former relationships are irrelevant.
Former relationships aren't irrelevant when he's basically still having them. There are plenty of men who won't flaunt their past conquests in their girlfriends' faces.
So many flags but the following sums up my questions:
1) What does this guy have to offer that he can get away with flaunting his past conquest and still get women to pursue him? Looks? Personality? Money? Best lover in the world? all of the above?
Ive never seen any guy other than Hugh Hefner that fits your description
They say people CAN change, but I personally wouldn't date anyone who had cheated in the past. And it doesn't sound like it was a one time isolated incident of cheating either. It sounds almost like he's proud of it. Don't be that woman who thinks she is so fantastic that the guy won't cheat on her. Once a cheater, always a cheater and it doesn't have anything to do with how great you are.
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