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they hate fat women & consider them worthless. Not sure how many time this type of question has to be asked, it's been made apparent more then once.
It's not that anyone hates fat women. There is more to it for that at least for me. Can you say health issues? Lets say you start to have feelings for this person. How long before they drop dead of a heart attack? Do you really want to be with someone who might die on you because of thier weight or other health issues?
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It's not that anyone hates fat women. There is more to it for that at least for me. Can you say health issues? Lets say you start to have feelings for this person. How long before they drop dead of a heart attack? Do you really want to be with someone who might die on you because of thier weight or other health issues?
The post was not gender-specific.
I will not date morbidly obese/very fat women. Sometimes I make stupid jokes, like the above, but I make stupid jokes about everything. Fat people are the same as everyone else, no more inferior...they are not bad people, but I can't force myself to be sexually attracted to a very fat woman, so sue me for it.
Most people wouldn't. None of this PC bull-crap about taking the person for the person. I applaud those who can, but people who pretend and say 'I'd date anyone' when they really wouldn't (I don't deny it's possible) are dishonest.
My favorite is when a guy has dated a lot of overweight women and people think that he's attracted to heavy women. Right. The reality is that he probably can't get attractive women so he settles. And unfortunately a lot of times heavier women will do more to get guys because they know they have to.
It's not mean to say you would not date a fat women or man. Dating someone implies that you are attracted to their personality AND their physical appearance. It's actually more mean to date them and have sex with them when you are not attracted to them, because at some point you will probably dump them for someone you are more attracted to.
My gut reaction is to say "yes," but, the more I think about it, the more that the answer is honestly "no."
I generally find girls who are on the thin/atheletic-to-curvaceous end of the spectrum attractive. However, I've known a few girls who became much more attractive to me after they put some weight on, and I've also known girls who have lost weight and in the process, became less attractive to me. A girl I know now, for instance: I've known her for about six months. She's very naturally shapely, with wide hips and thighs, and she's actually done a very admirable job of losing weight lately (she's in her early 20's, had a child, and is now single again and trying to get back in shape to date). She was never chunky or chubby at all, and looked very hot, but her thinner physique is actually less flattering to her natural figure.
It really does just depend on the woman and how she wears it.
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