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See, being a white guy, I don't mind you saying this.
You simply are more attracted to guys who aren't white.
No need to jump on the race bandwagon and scream racism. I, unfortunately think far to many people get upset.
Who gives a f.... someone prefers whites over another race or whatever it happens to be, people are attracted to whatever they are attracted to.
I don't like white and Hispanic women because it is somehow 'better' or whatever.. I just like what I like.... end of story.
I see beautiful non white women all of the time.. I just prefer a certain type.
If that makes me racist... then we need to redefine what racism is......
I think it is also interesting to think about the why behind our preferences. Personally, I am trying to be a little more open minded about my preferences.
I figured out, personally, there were probably a few internal reasons I wasn't into white guys. Part of it as appearance (I don't like pale guys, but obviously not all white people are pale) and the other reason was because I feel like many white people are oblivious to white privilege. And They wouldn't necessarily understand what it is like to be a person of color in the US. And pretty much anyone in any other ethnic group would.
I felt like I needed to spend more time figuring this out for myself, to understand my reasoning to make sure it wasn't a form of bias on my part. (Generally speaking, I have also always had a fair number of white friends -- male and female -- as well)
I would say San Francisco and Fremont are quite diverse. Alameda County more then any other county there.
I find SF to be diverse, but segregated. Only certain people go to certain neighborhoods or night spots. Oakland is a lot more mixed up. Haven't spent a ton of time in Fremont since it is suburbia. But there's definitely a huge range of ethnic groups there. Not sure how mixed up it is though.
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