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Old 04-27-2012, 06:21 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Originally Posted by Trimac20 View Post
Whoa...haha, yes this might ruffle a few feathers but I've noticed this too...

If a white person - man or woman - is with a non-white person, they tend to 'date up' and the non-white person 'dates down.' Funnily enough, however, I've seen Asian males with attractive white females the most often though.
Its all about status..

White men date hot black women becauee they arent dating for staus. They are dating the woman who turn his crank, because white men have no need for status play in america. Black men date ugly fat white quite often, because it elevates their status in society. That is why the.OP started this thread - to announce his elevation.

 
Old 04-27-2012, 06:22 PM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Lol you sound like my friend who we all call Forever Alone.

But anyway, to answer the OP's question, I have never been attracted to women of my own race and I've never date an Asian woman before. I prefer Latinas.
Do bitter women of your own race say that "you've been brain washed" "you hate yourself", " that you only date ugly, fat Latinas"?
 
Old 04-27-2012, 06:45 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Do bitter women of your own race say that "you've been brain washed" "you hate yourself", " that you only date ugly, fat Latinas"?
Are you speaking about my words on this thread?
 
Old 04-27-2012, 06:46 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Its all about status..

White men date hot black women becauee they arent dating for staus. They are dating the woman who turn his crank, because white men have no need for status play in america. Black men date ugly fat white quite often, because it elevates their status in society. That is why the.OP started this thread - to announce his elevation.
I don't know if dating an ugly, fat woman elevates their status...in a way like,

fit, attractive black man is equal to ugly, fat white woman in status

It's totally wrong, I know, but that's how they're viewed by society.
 
Old 04-27-2012, 06:54 PM
 
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I don't know if dating an ugly, fat woman elevates their status...in a way like,

fit, attractive black man is equal to ugly, fat white woman in status

It's totally wrong, I know, but that's how they're viewed by society.
That's what I'm trying to figure out. How does dating a ugly, fat person give you elevation? Have you heard of trophy wife/girl.
 
Old 04-27-2012, 06:59 PM
 
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That's what I'm trying to figure out. How does dating a ugly, fat person give you elevation? Have you heard of trophy wife/girl.
For people who have a strong preference for another race, having a mate who belongs to that race is an achievement to them. That person who you consider fat/ugly/below average is still a prize to them.
 
Old 04-27-2012, 07:18 PM
 
Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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I don't know if dating an ugly, fat woman elevates their status...in a way like,

fit, attractive black man is equal to ugly, fat white woman in status

It's totally wrong, I know, but that's how they're viewed by society.
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That's what I'm trying to figure out. How does dating a ugly, fat person give you elevation? Have you heard of trophy wife/girl.
It's racial hierarchy not looks.being nice but realistic White trumps all (according to society)
 
Old 04-27-2012, 07:18 PM
 
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Here is what's wrong with the op...

-Women aren't "your own".
-Black women have it tough..and they respond differently.
-You went to college and got with the first white woman who showed you attention. Do you know how easy it is for black men in college? It's like pussypalooza, I'm just saying.
-You didn't go back after college to look for a girl. You didn't give them a second chance.
-Most women don't even begin to know what's what until they're like 26-30. Teenage black girls are idiots, and they don't stop being idiots until they've grown a bit and realize that perhaps we weren't wrong in the first place.
 
Old 04-27-2012, 07:20 PM
 
Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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I guess he was just wondering if others have had similar experiences. To answer the OP's question, I suppose I "bailed on my race" when I was around 8 years old and fell in love with Joey McIntyre from New Kids on the Block. From that point on, I found myself attracted to many men who weren't black, but rejection from black men had nothing to do with it.
I prefer Jordan knight
 
Old 04-27-2012, 07:21 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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It's racial hierarchy not looks.being nice but realistic White trumps all (according to society)
Yep, that's what it is. Deep down, some still believe whites are superior, a higher class of human being, worth more.
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