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LOL pf, your a sad sack. It's hard to believe you have no luck with the ladies, cuz you seem like a cool guy.
Unfortunately them's the bones that were rolled for me. I wished I were lying about it on here and actually getting mobbed by women. It's not the case, so I just live my life.
We know this, Snapper. The women here know this. It's the guys you have to convince. They don't believe women like nice guys. I guess they think we're all lying. But as Stepka commented in one of these endless conversations, if women don't like nice guys, why are so many nice guys married?
You don't have to sell us on this, we're already there.
And if you're looking for women in bars who appreciate guys like you, you're looking in the wrong place pretty much, though I've known a couple of women who went for nice guys in bars. Hot women who were tired of sleazy guys coming onto them just because they looked hot.
What women want and what women say they want are two completely different things.
If women wanted nice guys and really ended up with nice guys....there'd be nothing but nice guys at bars trying to meet women. Unfortunately, the real world just doesn't work that way and women really don't want the nice guys.
The thing is though, average/mediocre and let's be honest even Ugly men get married all the time in America. By the millions actually.
What makes these guys mad is that their not marrying the hot or highly attractive women they think they deserve. They're marrying their average/mediocre counterparts
What women want and what women say they want are two completely different things.
If women wanted nice guys and really ended up with nice guys....there'd be nothing but nice guys at bars trying to meet women. Unfortunately, the real world just doesn't work that way and women really don't want the nice guys.
I'd say most women would date a nice guy at some point. That's just not a selling point. It won't help you at all.
You need looks, attitude, or whatever else to hook them, attract them. The nice guy part will more help you keep them after you hooked 'em. So, yes ... it's not very useful to men who can't attract women.
Then again, the same could probably said of unattractive nice women. They probably have it rough too.
The thing is though, average/mediocre and let's be honest even Ugly men get married all the time in America. By the millions actually.
What makes these guys mad is that their not marrying the hot or highly attractive women they think they deserve. They're marrying their average/mediocre counterparts
^^^^ So true.
But the thing is, average shouldn't have such the negative connotation it does. Plenty of men think I'm attractive but I'm no Kate Upton, not by a long-shot. I call myself a "regular" person, as opposed to "average". And almost everyone I know is a regular person. And people are so much more than what you see on the surface, that's why regular/average/mediocre people are married or in successful relationships, because attraction isn't isolated only to looks.
Unfortunately them's the bones that were rolled for me. I wished I were lying about it on here and actually getting mobbed by women. It's not the case, so I just live my life.
Don't worry, I'm sure there are guys on here doing the opposite and saying they get all kinds of action when they really don't get that much. At least we have honesty on our side, not that it will help us.
The thing is though, average/mediocre and let's be honest even Ugly men get married all the time in America. By the millions actually.
What makes these guys mad is that their not marrying the hot or highly attractive women they think they deserve. They're marrying their average/mediocre counterparts
This.
that's all you need to know honestly, you can't complain if you choose to date or marry down.
I have a few average/below average looking male friends who complain endlessly about women 'screwing them over' and how they can't get a 'hot chick'. When I point out a woman that's fairly average, but seems nice they roll their eyes and say things like 'I can't date that cow' or 'ew, gross, she's ugly!'
Well, you ain't exactly a catch yourself! I know I'm not going to bag an Abercrombie and Fitch model, nor do I want to, why can't men think the same way?
I have a few average/below average looking male friends who complain endlessly about women 'screwing them over' and how they can't get a 'hot chick'. When I point out a woman that's fairly average, but seems nice they roll their eyes and say things like 'I can't date that cow' or 'ew, gross, she's ugly!'
Well, you ain't exactly a catch yourself! I know I'm not going to bag an Abercrombie and Fitch model, nor do I want to, why can't men think the same way?
I dunno.....most men are aware of how they stand in terms of attractiveness.
I dunno.....most men are aware of how they stand in terms of attractiveness.
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