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I am happily married and I have a good relation with my husband but recent months we don't have sex, he says he is too tired :/ Earlier, we had sex regularly, not a lot but enough. What is important, he had a problem with ejaculation and came very quickly every time last year even when we had sex, could this be the reason ?I'm so sad, sex is the most important thing a man and women can do to show there love for each other, so why he doesn't want to make love with me? He loves me, I'm sure that he doesn't betray me too.
It seems likely (as a place to start) to be a medical condition for which he is unwilling to seek treatment, out of fear or embarassment. If the fatigue is real and not just an excuse for some other problem, he should get checked out - or for the other problem whatever that may be.
You're happily married with a good relationship, talk with him about your concerns in a non-confrontational manner. Ask him what is making him so tired. Let him know that you miss having sex and how important it is to you. Is he working longer hours than usual? Exercising too much? Stressed over something? Several things can contribute to his fatigue.
You really sure, that he doesn't betray you?
Suspicious, he did not want to have sex.
What do you do in the evenings with him?
Maybe talk to him, maybe something happened ..
I am happily married and I have a good relation with my husband but recent months we don't have sex, he says he is too tired :/ Earlier, we had sex regularly, not a lot but enough. What is important, he had a problem with ejaculation and came very quickly every time last year even when we had sex, could this be the reason ?I'm so sad, sex is the most important thing a man and women can do to show there love for each other, so why he doesn't want to make love with me? He loves me, I'm sure that he doesn't betray me too.
How old is he? He needs to see a doctor. If he's on certain medications, it's possible they are a cause of the PE. He may have thyroid problems or even prostate problems. PE usually isn't a problem and does happen time to time but if it is happening every time, then there's a problem. Talk to him and find out what's bothering him. Do you have kids and if not, have you discussed having kids? Is he against having kids? There's a slew of reasons for PE but we can't help you. You need to talk to your husband and if it's occurring all the time, he needs to see a doctor.
It could be like some have said that he is embarrassed, and/or has experienced some sexual trauma, and/or he could be dealing with a pornography addiction. I suggest you see a lisenced sex therapist. Or get a book by one if that's less threatening. That will at least give you all the possible reasons and help you/him pinpoint the problem.
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